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Self Love Affirmations

Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure

Love is important and it takes up lot of our energy. We want to love and be loved in return. I think of love as a battery. When we have love, we feel powerful, energetic, optimistic, creative and motivated. It drives us forward and it is addictive. Yes, addictive. Once you feel love, you are not the same person anymore.

I realized all this about love when Eden, my eldest, was born over 25 years ago. With her, new feelings were born inside of me and there was nothing that could take those feelings away.

Before Eden was born, my first nephew, Adam was the first kid I ever loved. And I loved him so much (and still do) that I was afraid I wouldn’t be able to love my own child as much as I loved him.

When Eden was born, I was glad to discover that there is no limit to love. I loved Eden so much and my love for Adam did not change one single bit. But at that point, I realized that we bring kids into the world to learn to love ourselves. Our own kids teach us so much about ourselves and we should appreciate that.

This post is part 6 of 6 in the series Affirmations

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Published: October 30, 2014 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: October 30, 2014In: Personal Development Tags: personal development / personal growth / personality development / self improvement, gratitude, freedom, love, forgiveness, responsibility, success, beliefs, happiness, affirmations, positive attitude tips, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, self confidence / self esteem / self worth

Knowing Your Happiness

Signs you are truly happy - infographic

I have been teaching happiness for many years and one of the things most of my clients want to know is how to find out when they are happy. You see, people are focused on what is going wrong in their lives. They have signs that tell them that things are not going great. Let me share some with you.

image”I am unhappy when I’m in conflict”

“I am unhappy when I don’t succeed”

“I am unhappy when things don’t happen the way I want them to happen”

“I am unhappy when people do not agree with me”

“I am unhappy when I am tired”

“I am unhappy when I don’t have the money to do all the things I want to do”

“I am unhappy if I can’t predict the future”

“I am unhappy if I am not in control all the time”

“I am unhappy when I worry”

“I am unhappy when people do not appreciate me”

“I am unhappy when others are more successful than me”

Research shows that people have more signs for unhappiness than signs for happiness.

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Published: June 12, 2014 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 25, 2019In: Health / Wellbeing, Life Coaching Tags: gratitude, how to, choice, research, control, exercise, happiness, Life Coaching, sleep, focus, friends / friendship

Positive Beliefs about Money

Being wealthy is more than counting the money you have in your bank account. It is a mindset. In the last chapter of Happily Wealthy Family, I shared many of the negative beliefs we often have about money. By identifying these beliefs, you can do your best to replace them with positive beliefs about money.

Here is a list of 100 positive beliefs about money, wealth, investing and rich people. Reading them does not mean you automatically adopt them. Find the ones you do believe in and make sure to hang them up in a place you can read every day. If you find others you want to adopt, find a story, a situation, or a person you know that is proof that this belief is valid.

For example, I had a belief that you have to be born rich to be rich. I wanted to believe that everyone could be rich. I knew a guy (who was my dad’s boss) who was very wealthy but was born to a very very poor family. With the help of this story, I could adopt the belief “Everyone can be rich!”

This post is part 9 of 10 in the series Happily Wealthy Family

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Published: May 15, 2014 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: April 20, 2020In: Success / Wealth Tags: money, rich, success, poor, negative, positive attitude tips, beliefs, positive, mind, attitude, change, income, focus, happiness, list, gratitude, lifestyle, values, wealth, skills, financial freedom

Blessings for the New Year

Happy 2014

To start off the New Year, I wanted to share some blessings with you. This year I will celebrate my 50th birthday and I think this year’s blessings should fit that age.

I received this New Year message from my cousin. It made me smile so I hope it will make you smile too.

Wishing you all lots of love, happiness, health, and wealth for the New Year.

May your hair, your teeth, your face-lift, your abs, and your stocks not fall.

And may your blood pressure, your triglycerides, your cholesterol, your white blood count and your mortgage interest not rise.

May you get a clean bill of health from your dentist, your cardiologist, your gastroenterologist, your urologist, your proctologist, your podiatrist, your psychiatrist, your plumber, and the Internal Revenue.

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Published: January 2, 2014 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 25, 2019In: Personal Development Tags: focus, gratitude, love, happiness, hope, dreams, wealth

Teachers’ Award

Award ribbon

It is the end of the school year here in Australia and like every year, my kids say goodbye to some wonderful teachers and I get sentimental. Noff (my youngest) is finishing primary school and will be going into high school next year, so we had to say goodbye to quite a few teachers.

As we were making up the end of year gifts, we made a list of all the teachers Noff has had in the last 8 years, and examined their contributions to her life and to ours, her family. Noff had about six teachers she said she really liked. Of those six, two made a significant impact on her life and one was such a fantastic teacher, Noff will remember her forever. She is what you might call a “forever teacher”.

Even just one teacher like that is enough to set your kid up for life. Noff was lucky enough to have this teacher for a whole year and then continued to stay in contact with her in one way or another for the next 4 years.

We, the Baras Family, would like to bestow the 2013 Best Teacher in the Entire World Award to Ms. Kellie Scrogings! Kellie (or Ms. Scrogings, as the kids must call her) was Noff’s Year 3 teachers. She then directed the school musicals when Noff was in Years 6 and 7.

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Published: December 5, 2013 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 25, 2019In: Education / Learning Tags: school, gratitude, inspiration, k-12 education, kids / children, education / learning, emotional development, practical parenting / parents, teaching / teachers

Choice Theory: Happy Business

Which direction to take?

In the last two posts on “choice theory,” I covered William Glasser’s reality theory and the seven deadly and caring habits and their impact on relationships and parenting.

Glasser’s choice theory helped not just individuals but also organizations like schools and businesses to enable management, workers, and students to take part in the system using internal motivation and avoid conflicts.

Every business transaction (and schooling is similar) is a transaction in relationship. We call good relationship a good business transaction, and conflict, anger, disappointment, and frustration a bad business transaction. For a business to succeed, it needs to establish good relationship between all participants and connect well. Glasser called it “Lead Management.” Using the choice theory in business, employees, managers, suppliers, and clients replace external control with internal control based on happy and successful relationship and are very much dependent on the managers, who lead the organizations.

This post is part 4 of 6 in the series Choice Theory

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Published: October 10, 2013 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: October 10, 2013In: Emotional Intelligence Tags: identity, Life Coaching, communication styles, listening, gratitude, decision making, responsibility, leadership, success, personal development / personal growth / personality development / self improvement, emotional intelligence, evaluation, choice, guilt, failure

Choice Theory: Happy Parenting

You have a choice

In the previous chapter of the choice theory, I explained the controlling and connecting habits—the caring or deadly habits based on William Glasser. In his theory, Glasser explained many of our behaviors as a choice. There are basic beliefs in his theory that all therapies are based on.

Based on Glasser, when we behave, it is a mix of action, thinking, feeling, and physiology. He called it “total behavior,” as they appear in different degrees and in combination.

He very much focused on taking responsibility in order to gain control and it is quite relevant to parenting.

This post is part 3 of 6 in the series Choice Theory

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Published: October 3, 2013 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: October 4, 2013In: Personal Development, Parenting Tags: responsibility, happiness, guilt, values, Life Coaching, emotional development, success, perception, practical parenting / parents, emotional intelligence, compassion, role model, needs, choice, positive, trust, kids / children, failure, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, language, self confidence / self esteem / self worth, beliefs, personal development / personal growth / personality development / self improvement, gratitude, identity

I’m OK, You’re OK Parenting: “I’m OK” Beliefs

3 children resting

This is the last installment in the “I’m OK, You’re OK Parenting” series. To wrap up, I want to share some beliefs that have helped me as a parent, and also many of my clients, to adopt an I’m OK, You’re OK parenting mentality.

The best way to overcome guilt and shame is to adopt beliefs that strengthen our view of ourselves as OK (I’m OK) and of others as OK (You’re OK) – The I’m OK, You’re OK mindset. There are many ways to identify whether you are in another frame of mind. For example, If you are upset, or disappointed, if you lecture your kids, or want them to do something they do not want to do, if you are threatening them, punishing them, shouting at them or if you want to teach them a lesson, if you shame them, use name calling, or ridicule them, and if you think life needs to go your way “or else”, this generally means you are not in the I’m OK, You’re OK mode. This means your child is also learning this mindset and will most likely not be in the I’m OK, You’re OK mode either.

This post is part 7 of 7 in the series I'm OK - You're OK Parenting

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Published: October 1, 2013 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 25, 2019In: Personal Development, Parenting Tags: kids / children, failure, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, language, self confidence / self esteem / self worth, beliefs, personal development / personal growth / personality development / self improvement, gratitude, identity, responsibility, happiness, guilt, values, Life Coaching, emotional development, success, perception, practical parenting / parents, emotional intelligence, compassion, role model, needs, choice, positive, trust

Choice Theory: Happy Relationships

Heart-shaped maze

The choice theory, founded by William Glasser, suggests that all our actions are chosen and driven by the five basic needs: survival, love and belonging, power, freedom, and fun.

In relationships, our needNeed for love and belonging for love and belonging is the most important one. Based on Glasser, satisfying this specific need will guarantee our ability to fulfill all other needs. The source of all problems in the world, according to the choice theory, is disconnection. Behavior problems, mental illnesses, violence, abuse, crime, school problems, marriage breakdown, relationship challenges, and depression are all a result of our inability to connect or feel love and have a sense of belonging.

Our relationship with those we care about and care for us depends on our caring ability. Glasser suggested that there are 7 deadly habits that needed to be replaced with 7 caring habits.

This post is part 2 of 6 in the series Choice Theory

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Published: September 26, 2013 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 25, 2019In: Personal Development, Relationships / Marriage Tags: choice, needs, trust, positive, failure, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, language, self confidence / self esteem / self worth, beliefs, personal development / personal growth / personality development / self improvement, identity, gratitude, happiness, guilt, responsibility, Life Coaching, emotional development, values, relationships / marriage, success, perception, emotional intelligence, compassion

I’m OK, You’re OK Parenting: Being a “You’re OK” Parent

Little boy hugging little girl

In order to convince children that they are OK and good, a parent first needs to know that they are OK and good. Psychologist Thomas A. Harris. suggested four levels of emotional intelligence, that provide a framework for positive parenting. To read about the four levels, see “I’m OK, You’re OK Parenting: OK and EQ”. In an ideal world, parents would always be in an “I’m OK, You’re OK” state of mind. For this, for the parents must agree with the “I’m OK” part – they must first believe that they are OK. Once this is established, it is time to work on the “You’re OK” mindset.

Little boy and girl huggingLike a self-fulfilling prophecy, parents who see the good in themselves and their kids tend to raise kids who see the good in themselves as well. This is a great cycle. By taking care of ourselves, we ensure our children and their children know they are good and “OK”. This mindset can impact for many years even after we are gone.

This post is part 6 of 7 in the series I'm OK - You're OK Parenting

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Published: September 24, 2013 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 25, 2019In: Emotional Intelligence Tags: positive attitude tips, practical parenting / parents, choice, attitude, action, kids / children, beliefs, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, change, self confidence / self esteem / self worth, happiness, health / wellbeing, parent coaching, personal development / personal growth / personality development / self improvement, aggressive, feeling, self-fulfilling prophecy, expectation, gratitude, activity, frustration, emotional intelligence, career

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