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Posts about emotional intelligence and how to apply it in a school or tuition setting, how to help your child do well at school and how to give your kids the best possible education

Formal vs. Informal Learning: Which is The Best During COVID-19?

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During the COVID-19 pandemic, many parents ask themselves if formal education is enough to give their kids what they need. What was normal before COVID-19 is not the same now. I suggest informal learning instead.

I believe many good things came out of COVID-19. For example, some of my nephews blossomed with remote learning. Unfortunately, some of them, who had been brilliant students before, just collapsed.

Lately, the parents of many of the children I coach told me of real challenges at home. I believe this difficult period highlights challenges each family already had before. The uncertainty, the restrictions, the financial burden, and the isolation just added more pressure into the system and the system no longer copes.

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Published: December 2, 2020 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 2, 2020In: Parenting, Education / Learning Tags: school, emotional intelligence, social skills, k-12 education, health / wellbeing, education / learning, emotional development, practical parenting / parents

The Truth about Why We Send Our Kids to School

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There is a point in every parent’s journey where you ask yourself, “Why do I send my kids to school?” Over the last 33 years, I’ve worked with many parents. And I can tell you that most of them didn’t have a good answer to this question.

Have you ever reached this point in your parenting?

What was your answer?

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Published: September 30, 2020 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: September 30, 2020In: Parenting, Education / Learning Tags: school, success, choice, motivation, society, k-12 education, education / learning, practical parenting / parents

I’m Disappointed in You!

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Think of the last time anyone said to you, “I’m disappointed in you”. How did that make you feel?

Being disappointed is part of life. I guess it is one of the greatest challenges in life. Realizing that life is not happening the way you want and managing to push through despite it.

Although being disappointed is part of life, being disappointed in others should not be. When I work with my life coaching clients, we deal with a lot of disappointment. Sadly, what hurts them most is not self-disappointment – that things didn’t happen the way they “should have” – but being a disappointment to someone close.

When I think of all the times I have heard this, I can see two groups of people that express disappointment in my clients: teachers and parents, in this order. I dare say that they cause a lot of damage.

Disappointment is “sadness or displeasure caused by the non-fulfilment of one’s hopes or expectations”. Therefore, saying to someone, “I’m disappointed in you”, is telling that person he or she is not fulfilling your hopes and expectations.

Who are you to cause someone a bad feeling for not fulfilling your expectations?

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Published: August 22, 2018 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: April 28, 2020In: Parenting, Education / Learning Tags: teaching / teachers, failure, motivation, affirmations, k-12 education, kids / children, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, self confidence / self esteem / self worth, expectation, abuse, guilt, role model, practical parenting / parents, trust

Parenting Autistic Children: Catch 22

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The previous post in this series told the story of my first encounter with autism at a special school where I did work experience for 6 months. Today, I would like to introduce the problems families face when they notice something wrong in their child’s development. As you will see, the way the system works puts them in a Catch 22 situation.

Bringing a child into the world is a very exciting event in every family’s history. Noticing that something is wrong with a child is not easy to experience. As I’ve said before, mothers of autistic children were blamed in the past for the situation by the claim they did not connect with their child during the first weeks after birth.

Most of those moms sighed in relief when the results of an experiment confirmed that autistic babies were different from “normal” babies.

In the first stage of the research, every mom was given recordings of her baby crying and asked to guess the reason for the crying. Most moms of “normal” babies guessed correctly, while moms of autistic babies didn’t. So, those who advocated for the “let’s blame the mothers” said, “OK, then. That’s our proof”.

But the experiment continued.

This post is part 4 of 4 in the series Autism

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Published: August 1, 2018 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: August 1, 2018In: Parenting, Education / Learning Tags: kindergarten, learning disabilities, child care, practical parenting / parents, autism, early childhood, special education, research

Autistic School: First Encounter with Autism

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My first encounter with autism was when I was a Special Education student. From the very first year of studies, my classmates and I worked with children on the autistic spectrum and accompanied some children with severe autism at school. At the start of my second year, I had to choose a place for work experience.

I remember the day our head of department came to shows us the list of options. The autistic school was not on the list, so I asked about it – not because I wanted to work there, but because I was afraid of it.

You see, my philosophy was to choose all the things I was afraid of. I figured that it was the best time to challenge myself and get over my fears. This is why I chose to specialize in Math and this is why I asked about the autistic school.

The head of the department explained to all of us that they didn’t offer work experience at the autistic school because we were not ready for it. She said people did this type of work after they graduated.

This post is part 3 of 4 in the series Autism

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Published: July 11, 2018 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 26, 2019In: Parenting, Education / Learning Tags: touch, learning disabilities, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, practical parenting / parents, autism, special education

How to Make Learning Fun with 50 Great Activities

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If your kids go to school, you must be wondering how to make learning fun. Some teachers are good at this, but many are not, so it’s up to parents to add spice to the learning process.

Learning takes a big part of our life. As babies, we learn all the time. I can look at my granddaughter after not seeing her for 3 days and see she’s learned new things. And she has a lot of fun learning.

Later in life, we go to school to learn in a structured, controlled environment that doesn’t take into consideration that the brain needs to be open to absorb new knowledge. Sadly, I think that in the format it is now, school destroys a big part of our ability to learn.

I work with many children and the system has failed to instill the love for learning in them. I also work with grownups that consider school a traumatic period of their life.

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Published: June 27, 2018 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 18, 2022In: Education / Learning, Parenting Tags: memory, activity, fun, k-12 education, academic performance, practical parenting / parents, teaching / teachers, focus, school, how to

Who’s Afraid of Exams?

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Many children hate exams. If you ask them what they hate more than homework, they will tell you it is exams. They hate them because it is natural to be anxious in a situation that puts our abilities to the test.

Someone is looking at what you do, checking what you do and then judges you for it. Children don’t like to be judged. Well, in fact, no one likes to be judged.

Many parents say to me, “This is life and kids need to learn to live with it!” and I wonder if this really must be part of life and whether we must live in such a judgmental environment. Maybe we can transfer the focus from what others think about us to self-awareness and what we think about ourselves.

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Published: June 6, 2018 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 26, 2019In: Education / Learning, Parenting Tags: assessment, k-12 education, academic performance, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, self confidence / self esteem / self worth, practical parenting / parents, school, anxiety, failure, motivation

The Power of Bilingualism

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My introduction to learning languages and bilingualism happened 24 years ago, when we moved to Texas, USA, and our daughter started to learn English. As a Special Education teacher, I knew she would be fine, but as a mother, I was scared, because at the age of 4, with the language of a 10 year old, I was afraid she would be left behind.

She wasn’t!

Since then, I have been working with inspiring people who specialize in language acquisition and with many children of migrants around the world. I have learned that parents and teachers play an important role in supporting language development. If they understand the challenges and consider the myths around language, they can help kids with healthy language acquisition.

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Published: March 8, 2017 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: February 27, 2020In: Education / Learning, Parenting Tags: cultural, kids / children, education / learning, practical parenting / parents, teaching / teachers, communication, early childhood, language, generation gap, family matters, k-12 education

How to Turn off Children’s Creativity

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As an educator and a mother, I believe in the importance of developing children’s creativity. My first real job as an educator was in a very special project, called “Creative Thinking”. It was a very important part in my career and in forming my philosophy.

I think this is the reason creativity is such a high value for me. I have written a lot about creativity and how to “turn it on”. But today, I would like to give some negative examples of ways you can turn it off, just as easily as you can turn it on.

Please check if your relationships with your children or students include any of these things. If so, this may be limiting their creativity and future success.

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Published: February 15, 2017 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 26, 2019In: Parenting, Kids / Children, Education / Learning Tags: emotional intelligence, practical parenting / parents, teaching / teachers, control, change, k-12 education, attitude, kids / children, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, creative / creativity, focus, education / learning, success, expectation

Education System on Trial and Found Guilty

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Until I studied Education, I had not questioned the education system. I do not think I’d had the tools to question it. But by the time I graduated (in Special Education), I had realized something was wrong. It was easy to see this while working with kids who were different (both gifted and those with learning difficulties).

Why?

Because special education kids did not fit into the “education box” and the school system did not cater for them. It got worse when I realized, thanks to my amazingly wonderful teachers, that the system just did not care for any of the kids, because every child is special and different in some way. The system cared for itself.

It was devastating!

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Published: February 9, 2017 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: November 9, 2021In: Education / Learning, Parenting Tags: k-12 education, video, academic performance, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, behavior / discipline, education / learning, special education, practical parenting / parents, school, change, learning disabilities, society

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