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The Art of Being: Teach & Inspire by Living Authentically

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Three years ago, someone asked me, “If you could teach anything, what would it be?”

Honestly, the question caught me off guard. I didn’t have an answer. It’s such a big question that it’s been stuck in my head ever since.

You see, I’ve been a teacher for 38 years. My whole career has been teaching special education and focusing on emotional intelligence. I’ve always loved helping people find their strengths and use them to navigate life with happiness, health and success.

But in all those years, I never stopped to ask myself, “What would I teach if I could choose anything?” I didn’t think I needed to. I was just Ronit, the teacher, doing what I do best.

That question changed things for me and took me through a process of discovery. It made me think about life, about what I’ve learned, and what I really want to give to the world. Maybe by sharing the process of my discovery about the art of being, I can help you think about your own answers too.

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Published: January 29, 2025 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: January 29, 2025In: Education / Learning Tags: focus, early childhood, special education, touch, love, responsibility, emotional intelligence, personal development / personal growth / personality development / self improvement, practical parenting / parents

The Art of Relationships

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I have been working with children, families and in the education space for over 38 years, and written many articles on many topics related to education, personal development, relationships, families, empowerment, leadership and parenting. This blog alone has over 1,400 original articles that I have written over the years.

During those years, I have been asked many questions about my philosophy and in this series, I wish to bring to you my philosophy about different topics in an interview format. Questions and Answers and today’s topic is “Art of relationship” as I see it.

This post is part 1 of 1 in the series Interviews with Ronit

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Published: January 21, 2025 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: January 20, 2025In: Relationships / Marriage Tags: school, love, skills, emotional intelligence, how to, social skills, k-12 education, social, kindness, focus, early childhood

Happy, Healthy, Successful Life Formula: Knowing vs. Doing

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Everyone wants the formula for a happy, healthy, successful life. In fact, most of us spend enormous energy to find that formula, and we do it all our life. Recently, I had talks with many clients and friends and realized that the problem is not finding the formula but implementing it.

Most people say they know what to do but they just can’t do it. When I teach them something and they have an awakening or awareness or realization, most of the time, it is not because they don’t know what to do but because they found a way to implement something they already knew.

Did it happen to you that you read a book, went to a seminar, heard a podcast, and said, “I knew that”, but still you don’t do what you know?

Well, it happens to all of us.

This post is part 48 of 49 in the series Make a List

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Published: January 14, 2025 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: January 13, 2025In: Personal Development Tags: gratitude, men, art, meditation, how to, choice, change, focus, touch

Take Control: Choose to be Better, Not Bitter

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Control is something every human being wants. Adler once said that all human problems are the result of lack of control and/or lack of attention. Control plays a huge part of our life and to gain it, people will override many of their values, their dignity, wellbeing and even their humanity. Control is important to our existence.

Let’s be real. The only reason we want control is because… we feel out of control. Why is that? Why do humans feel out of control?

Well, the simple reason is that we are born like that. We start our life without any sense of control and from that moment on, our life journey is an awakening to the realization that even our death, is out of our control.

This post is part 1 of 1 in the series Control

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Published: January 7, 2025 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: January 6, 2025In: Personal Development Tags: love, emotional intelligence, how to, choice, control, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, diet, drugs, focus, school

Make Every Day a Special Day

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Growing up in a family that can’t enjoy the present and thinks joy can only come later, one day (maybe!) can do lots of damage to your kids. Not enjoying the things you have, focusing on trying to impress others, and saving everything “for a special day” takes a lot of energy.

This was the family I grew up in, and I had to change it, for my sake and the sake of my children.

Using my own medicine and walking the talk, I have used my own techniques of writing goals and changing attitude from “One special day” to “Every day is a special day”, and I set new family goals that changed our family life forever.

Here is my story.

This post is part 7 of 7 in the series Family Goals

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Published: January 2, 2025 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: June 20, 2025In: Parenting Tags: gratitude, love, choice, happiness, positive attitude tips, focus, school, touch

A Respectful Relationship Will Save Your Marriage

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Respect is crucial for every relationship, and the foundation of every successful marriage. The problem in every relationship arises when we feel under attack, respect goes out the window.

It is easy to be respectful when everything is good and lovely. The real test comes when things are not easy and we no longer feel trusting, safe and secure.

Still, I think it is good to understand what a respectful relationship looks like, so you notice when you are not in that zone.

This post is part 34 of 34 in the series Save Your Marriage

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Published: December 24, 2024 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 24, 2024In: Relationships / Marriage Tags: values, emotional intelligence, trust, relationships / marriage, social skills, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, focus, projection, love, abuse

Mastering Self-Care: Your A-to-Z Guide

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Self-care has a very simple definition. It is the things we do, or avoid doing, in order to look after ourselves, physically and/or mentally. If you have a car, you need to maintain smooth operation with regular servicing and gasoline/electricity. If you want to travel safely in this life, you also need to care for your mind and body.

Self-care maintains our health and wellbeing so we can function and enjoy our life.

Many people confuse self-care with selfishness and roget that we never say our car is selfish when it needs service. We accept it and are even willing to pay for it.

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Published: December 17, 2024 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 16, 2024In: Personal Development Tags: how to, choice, work life balance, self confidence / self esteem / self worth, personal development / personal growth / personality development / self improvement, focus, gratitude, love, responsibility, men

I Didn’t Know I Was Already an Artist!

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A very common question I ask all my clients is, “What would you do if you had no money constraints and didn’t have to work?” It is a good question because it allows the mind to free itself from the constraints of life and allows itself to want, simply want.

In life, instead of learning to want and go for our dreams, we learn to comply, to suppress our wants and do what is expected of us. We are born dreamers. Research says that this is at its peak when we are about 5 years old, starts to decline around 8 and reaches total devastation around 16 years old. By that stage, what seems hard is a “sign” we are not capable of achieving our dreams.

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Published: December 3, 2024 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 4, 2024In: Personal Development Tags: art, how to, choice, lifestyle, creative / creativity, focus, school, love, men

How to Be a Winner in Life

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Most people these days rush around, trying to get somewhere. They see life as a competition or a game they need to win. They keep wondering how to be a winner in life.

As we evolve and can rise above the survival mode in our life, we all ask the big question “What are we here for?” Looking for reasons for our existence is probably a good sign. Some call it an identity crisis.

I call it an awakening. It’s a point in time when we realize life is a game we play, and we suddenly want to understand it.

Much like any game, we play to win. Losing is no fun and we try to avoid it like the plague. When we’re happy, it feels like we’re winning, and when we’re unhappy, we feel like we’re losing.

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Published: December 16, 2020 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 16, 2020In: Personal Development Tags: success, emotional intelligence, how to, choice, happiness, personal development / personal growth / personality development / self improvement, focus

How to Inspire Your Kids’ Natural Kindness

Toddles showing natural kindness to baby

Humans are kind in nature. Just watch young children. They are born with natural kindness. This is the main reason it’s so wonderful to be around children. They constantly give and engage in a way that makes you want to give in return.

Research has found that kindness is contagious. If you want to see it in action, try smiling at people as you pass them on the street. Smiling is an act of kindness! And when you smile, people smile back.

When babies see a puppet show with kind and affectionate characters, followed by rude and mean ones, they prefer the kind puppets. Yes, they were just babies. But they have an innate ability to mirror their surroundings. They can notice the tone of the voice and actions.

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Published: November 18, 2020 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 9, 2024In: Parenting Tags: happiness, compassion, kids / children, women, tips, focus, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, vision, empathy, school, practical parenting / parents, gratitude, kindness, emotional intelligence, meditation, how to

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