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Personal Development, Self Growth

Posts about personal growth, personal development and personal improvement, how to be a better person, how to keep yourself motivated, particularly as a parent, and how to be happy in life

Happy, Healthy, Successful Life Formula: Knowing vs. Doing

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Everyone wants the formula for a happy, healthy, successful life. In fact, most of us spend enormous energy to find that formula, and we do it all our life. Recently, I had talks with many clients and friends and realized that the problem is not finding the formula but implementing it.

Most people say they know what to do but they just can’t do it. When I teach them something and they have an awakening or awareness or realization, most of the time, it is not because they don’t know what to do but because they found a way to implement something they already knew.

Did it happen to you that you read a book, went to a seminar, heard a podcast, and said, “I knew that”, but still you don’t do what you know?

Well, it happens to all of us.

This post is part 48 of 49 in the series Make a List

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Published: January 14, 2025 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: January 13, 2025In: Personal Development Tags: choice, change, focus, touch, gratitude, men, art, meditation, how to

Take Control: Choose to be Better, Not Bitter

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Control is something every human being wants. Adler once said that all human problems are the result of lack of control and/or lack of attention. Control plays a huge part of our life and to gain it, people will override many of their values, their dignity, wellbeing and even their humanity. Control is important to our existence.

Let’s be real. The only reason we want control is because… we feel out of control. Why is that? Why do humans feel out of control?

Well, the simple reason is that we are born like that. We start our life without any sense of control and from that moment on, our life journey is an awakening to the realization that even our death, is out of our control.

This post is part 1 of 1 in the series Control

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Published: January 7, 2025 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: January 6, 2025In: Personal Development Tags: acceptance / judgment / tolerance, diet, drugs, focus, school, love, emotional intelligence, how to, choice, control

Mastering Self-Care: Your A-to-Z Guide

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Self-care has a very simple definition. It is the things we do, or avoid doing, in order to look after ourselves, physically and/or mentally. If you have a car, you need to maintain smooth operation with regular servicing and gasoline/electricity. If you want to travel safely in this life, you also need to care for your mind and body.

Self-care maintains our health and wellbeing so we can function and enjoy our life.

Many people confuse self-care with selfishness and roget that we never say our car is selfish when it needs service. We accept it and are even willing to pay for it.

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Published: December 17, 2024 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 16, 2024In: Personal Development Tags: personal development / personal growth / personality development / self improvement, focus, gratitude, love, responsibility, men, how to, choice, work life balance, self confidence / self esteem / self worth

Increase Your Confidence Through Kindness

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We all want to be confident and raise confident children. In my workshops, when I ask parents to grant their kids four wishes, confidence is high on their list. Confidence is the faith we have that things will happen in a certain way or that we’ll manage whatever happens. It is a sense of satisfaction or happiness about things that happened or about to happen.

Most parents are very surprised when I tell them that kindness is a fantastic way to boost our confidence, so, let me show you what the connection is.

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Published: December 10, 2024 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 17, 2024In: Personal Development Tags: kindness, love, skills, men, art, how to, happiness, relationships / marriage, positive attitude tips, self confidence / self esteem / self worth, personal development / personal growth / personality development / self improvement, school

I Didn’t Know I Was Already an Artist!

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A very common question I ask all my clients is, “What would you do if you had no money constraints and didn’t have to work?” It is a good question because it allows the mind to free itself from the constraints of life and allows itself to want, simply want.

In life, instead of learning to want and go for our dreams, we learn to comply, to suppress our wants and do what is expected of us. We are born dreamers. Research says that this is at its peak when we are about 5 years old, starts to decline around 8 and reaches total devastation around 16 years old. By that stage, what seems hard is a “sign” we are not capable of achieving our dreams.

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Published: December 3, 2024 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 4, 2024In: Personal Development Tags: focus, school, love, men, art, how to, choice, lifestyle, creative / creativity

How to Be Happy: 36 Habits of Happy People

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This week, on the 20th of March, is the international day of happiness. I thought a good way to celebrating it would be to learn how to be happy by looking at the habits of happy people.

We all want to be happy and the search for happiness is gaining serious momentum in the last decade. I’m sure people searched for happiness way before that, but advanced digital technology has made it easier to learn more about happiness.

Happiness is now a science. I focus on happiness in my and help my clients become happier coaching. That’s why I call my business Be Happy in LIFE.

Simply put, happy people have habits that promote happiness. So, develop the habits of happy people, and you will be happy too.

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Published: March 17, 2021 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: March 17, 2021In: Personal Development Tags: gratitude, meditation, choice, happiness, optimism, attitude, personal development / personal growth / personality development / self improvement, mindfulness

Negative Emotions: How to Really Help Your Kids Manage Them

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As parents, it’s natural for us to want to keep our children from feeling what we perceive as negative emotions. We want to keep them from suffering. But as hard as it is to admit, by doing so, we often do more harm than good.

Most people grow up thinking that our purpose in life is to avoid suffering. But it isn’t!

We aren’t supposed to avoid suffering, we’re supposed to manage it. We should never fight it, or even try to control it. We must live with it and find ways to use it to our advantage.

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Published: January 27, 2021 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: November 28, 2022In: Parenting, Personal Development Tags: practical parenting / parents, communication, emotional intelligence, how to, listening, compassion, kids / children, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, empathy, emotions, feeling

Light up the Darkness this Year – Happy 2021

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In 2020, I spoke a lot to my clients about pain, and our desire to get rid of it. We’re all afraid of pain, and sadly, the more afraid we are, the more pain we have. Pain is darkness, while joy is light.

It’s important to understand that pain is not the enemy. It’s only a messenger. And in 2021, I sincerely hope to see more joy.

I was 25 years old when I first encountered the concept of the body sending us messages. If you’re a spiritual person, you might think it’s God, or some other universal force. But no matter what you believe, paying attention to these messages helps greatly in maintaining your health.

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Published: January 6, 2021 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: January 5, 2021In: Personal Development

How to Be a Winner in Life

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Most people these days rush around, trying to get somewhere. They see life as a competition or a game they need to win. They keep wondering how to be a winner in life.

As we evolve and can rise above the survival mode in our life, we all ask the big question “What are we here for?” Looking for reasons for our existence is probably a good sign. Some call it an identity crisis.

I call it an awakening. It’s a point in time when we realize life is a game we play, and we suddenly want to understand it.

Much like any game, we play to win. Losing is no fun and we try to avoid it like the plague. When we’re happy, it feels like we’re winning, and when we’re unhappy, we feel like we’re losing.

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Published: December 16, 2020 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 16, 2020In: Personal Development Tags: focus, success, emotional intelligence, how to, choice, happiness, personal development / personal growth / personality development / self improvement

If I Only Knew: How to Learn from the Past

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Have you ever said to yourself, “If only I knew [something], my life would be better now”? I know I have. Let’s look at how we can use this question to learn from the past, heal, and have a better future.

When I was a younger everyone wanted to be smart. Everyone praised high academic achievements and tried to get them. Yet even when I started to get good grades, which wasn’t easy for me, I still had the feeling they weren’t enough.

I was surrounded by smart people who got amazing grades, but they weren’t happy, and I didn’t envy them. Eventually, I realized that being wise is more useful than being smart.

This post is part 47 of 49 in the series Make a List

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Published: November 11, 2020 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: November 26, 2024In: Personal Development

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