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How to Clean Away Resentment and Be Happy

Couple showing resentment towards each other

Resentment is a destructive feeling. We get it from being forced to do things we don’t want to do. It comes from feeling powerless. But we can clear away resentment.

We’re all born with the disease to please. We learn thorough our parents’ behavior, and a set of “rewards” and “punishments”. This pressure to do what’s expected of us to avoid negative consequences develops a dependency on the approval of others. Later, when we go to school, we take this need to please others to the next level and eventually dedicate our lives to it.

The problem with pleasing others is that every second we spend trying to please someone else, we step further away from ourselves. We can’t find out who we are and express ourselves authentically. Many people find it very difficult to hear that it damages our self-image.

This post is part 7 of 49 in the series Make a List

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Published: March 9, 2021 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: March 10, 2021In: Relationships / Marriage Tags: motivation, relationships / marriage, anger, behavior / discipline, personal development / personal growth / personality development / self improvement, how to, choice, control, happiness

The Truth about Why We Send Our Kids to School

Girl looking up from school work

There is a point in every parent’s journey where you ask yourself, “Why do I send my kids to school?” Over the last 33 years, I’ve worked with many parents. And I can tell you that most of them didn’t have a good answer to this question.

Have you ever reached this point in your parenting?

What was your answer?

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Published: September 30, 2020 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: September 30, 2020In: Parenting, Education / Learning Tags: choice, motivation, society, k-12 education, education / learning, practical parenting / parents, school, success

How to Motivate Your Stepchildren: A Stepparent’s Guide

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Being a parent is one of the biggest challenges a person ever experiences. Being a stepparent is even harder. If every family needs goals, blended families need them even more.

Think of a family like a ship. Parents are the captains of the ship, and as captains, we need to make sure our family arrives at its destination safely. In every sea, there are storms and calm waters, and we need to prepare ourselves for every ride.

What do ships need in order to move? They need two coordinates. They need to know where they are and where they are going. Without them, we don’t know how much supplies to take, what direction to take, what to avoid and where to stop on the way to have some fun.

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Published: September 2, 2020 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: September 2, 2020In: Parenting Tags: books, motivation, kids / children, teens / teenagers, parenting teens, practical parenting / parents, how to

Why You Need to Support Your Kids’ Career Choice

Noff Baras

Many parents stress about what their children choose to study and/or their career. So much so, that they fail to support their children in making the right career choice.

I didn’t know this was such an issue until my friends heard that my daughter wanted to be an actor. Almost immediately, everyone told me I should talk her out of it. I then realized that what children chose to study was an issue for many parents.

I guess I was lucky. I chose to study something my parents approved of, so no one ever said anything about it. Neither one of my parents had gone to higher education, so I was the first one to study. Everyone was just thrilled about it.

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Published: August 26, 2020 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: August 26, 2020In: Parenting Tags: choice, control, purpose, motivation, poll, career, teens / teenagers, parenting teens, practical parenting / parents, success, emotional intelligence

My Parenting Book “Motivating Kids” is Now in Print

Motivating Kids

Over 20 years ago, people said to me that books were going to be a thing of the past. The prediction that we would no longer see any printed newspaper or book was devastating for me, because my desire to be an author and a journalist just didn’t seem right without them.

When I heard that, I grieved the lost experience of touching books, taking my kids to the library, smelling the printed paper and sitting in the kids’ corner, reading, enjoying the moment and imagining we are in a different world. Inside, I prayed it wouldn’t happen. At least, I prayed it wouldn’t happen too quickly.

I think my wish came true.

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Published: July 26, 2019 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: November 28, 2022In: Parenting Tags: how to, choice, books, motivation, personal development / personal growth / personality development / self improvement, practical parenting / parents

Boring: What Does it Really Mean?

Little girl looking bored

As a parent, I hear the word “boring” a lot. I also heard it a lot as a teacher. There are two main reasons kids use the word “boring”:

1. They say “boring” instead of “hard” when they want to hide their difficulties.
2. They want to manipulate their parents and put pressure on them.

Today, I would like to talk about the reasons and solutions for the second type of motivation.

Children learn at an early age that their parents find the word “boring” painful. They know their parents feel uncomfortable when they hear it, so it becomes a “button” to press. This happens when the parents see themselves as being in charge of their children’s entertainment.

I am sure you have heard many mothers say that they can’t leave their babies on their own for 2 seconds. Those babies grow up to be kids who can’t entertain themselves, and later on, they become adults who can’t entertain themselves.

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Published: April 3, 2019 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: August 13, 2020In: Parenting Tags: practical parenting / parents, responsibility, motivation, tv, activity, kids / children, tips, behavior / discipline, guilt, emotional development

Success vs. Talent: How I almost made the Olympic team

Gymnast jumping high in the air

Some people think that talent is the only thing we need to succeed in life. I thought so too when I was young. I was very talented in gymnastics and I thought that talent was the only thing I needed. It was very hard for me to realize that talent was just a baseline and guaranteed nothing.

I’m all for helping our children find their talent, but finding it, and even pursuing it, is not enough for success. They need something more.

Not long ago, I had the honor of working with two amazing young athletes on the Australian Olympic team. They were both equally talented and had all the physical skills, but one of them had what it takes to succeed, and the other didn’t.

Working with them reminded me of my Olympic team adventure as a child and why talent is not enough for success.

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Published: February 13, 2019 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: February 12, 2019In: Personal Development Tags: focus, skills, success, emotional intelligence, how to, motivation, determination, law of attraction, persistence, attitude, personal development / personal growth / personality development / self improvement

Contentment and Gratitude: How Green is Your Grass?

Two thumbs up from plants

I’ve written a lot about happiness and realized that some people just don’t get that happiness is an idea, a thought, an action you choose. On the other hand, unhappiness is the absence of that idea. One of the things that make people miserable is always comparing themselves to others.

I guess the reason we compare is that we learn it from our parents. It is an essential part of life and an important factor in our evolution. We must have a definition of what is right and what is wrong to navigate through life. If green, vibrant, healthy grass is the definition of happiness, then yellow, dull, dying grass is the definition of misery.

So, it’s OK to look at other people’s grass to find better ways to treat ours. But it’s not so good to believe that “The grass is always greener on the other side”.

Do you know why it’s not good? Because it’s not true.

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Published: November 28, 2018 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: November 28, 2018In: Personal Development Tags: focus, gratitude, responsibility, emotional intelligence, how to, happiness, motivation, hope, tips, personal development / personal growth / personality development / self improvement

Turn Your Unhappiness into Personal Growth

Unhappy young woman

I often discuss happiness with my clients. They find it very awkward when I tell them it is possible to find happiness everywhere, including times of unhappiness.

Most people try to avoid unhappiness like the plague. They divide life into happy and unhappy and think they should move towards happy and avoid unhappy. This is good if you think of it as a process and direction, but not if you think of it as something that shrinks you. You see, we can grow from happiness and we can grow from unhappiness.

Trent was a 28-year-old man who worked at a petrol station. He was healthy, made good money, could pick shifts if he wanted to do something in the evening, had time for computer games and had some good friends.

On the surface, you’d think Trent had a very good life, but he didn’t. His friends were all professionals with university degrees, and he still didn’t know what he wanted to do in his life. He told me he’d never known what he wanted to do in his life.

One day, Trent had a weekend away with his friends, and although the time spent together was fantastic, Trent came back very unhappy. This was when he looked for a life coach and found me.

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Published: October 10, 2018 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: May 17, 2022In: Personal Development Tags: empowerment, happiness, motivation, Life Coaching, positive attitude tips, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, personal development / personal growth / personality development / self improvement, emotions, emotional intelligence, feeling, how to, choice

Choosing the Right Career Path for Your Kids

Noff Baras in an Audrey Hebpurn pose

Parents worry about their children choosing the right career path. Some people start these worries very early in their kids’ life. I know parents who have registered their babies to a special daycare center when the mother discovered she was pregnant.

Don’t get me wrong, I think education is important and planning children’s future is important too, but choosing a child’s career path before he or she is born?

I met Miguel when he contacted me about child coaching. He wanted me to work with his son, Luca. When I asked him and his wife to tell me about Luca, they only had negative things to say right from the start.

This post is part 18 of 19 in the series From the Life Coaching Deck

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Published: August 29, 2018 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: August 13, 2020In: Parenting Tags: control, motivation, dreams, career, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, practical parenting / parents, success

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