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Formal vs. Informal Learning: Which is The Best During COVID-19?

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During the COVID-19 pandemic, many parents ask themselves if formal education is enough to give their kids what they need. What was normal before COVID-19 is not the same now. I suggest informal learning instead.

I believe many good things came out of COVID-19. For example, some of my nephews blossomed with remote learning. Unfortunately, some of them, who had been brilliant students before, just collapsed.

Lately, the parents of many of the children I coach told me of real challenges at home. I believe this difficult period highlights challenges each family already had before. The uncertainty, the restrictions, the financial burden, and the isolation just added more pressure into the system and the system no longer copes.

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December 2, 2020 by Ronit Baras In: Parenting, Education / Learning Tags: school, emotional intelligence, social skills, k-12 education, health / wellbeing, education / learning, emotional development, practical parenting / parents

The Truth about Why We Send Our Kids to School

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There is a point in every parent’s journey where you ask yourself, “Why do I send my kids to school?” Over the last 33 years, I’ve worked with many parents. And I can tell you that most of them didn’t have a good answer to this question.

Have you ever reached this point in your parenting?

What was your answer?

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September 30, 2020 by Ronit Baras In: Parenting, Education / Learning Tags: school, success, choice, motivation, society, k-12 education, education / learning, practical parenting / parents

How to Make Learning Fun with 50 Great Activities

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If your kids go to school, you must be wondering how to make learning fun. Some teachers are good at this, but many are not, so it’s up to parents to add spice to the learning process.

Learning takes a big part of our life. As babies, we learn all the time. I can look at my granddaughter after not seeing her for 3 days and see she’s learned new things. And she has a lot of fun learning.

Later in life, we go to school to learn in a structured, controlled environment that doesn’t take into consideration that the brain needs to be open to absorb new knowledge. Sadly, I think that in the format it is now, school destroys a big part of our ability to learn.

I work with many children and the system has failed to instill the love for learning in them. I also work with grownups that consider school a traumatic period of their life.

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June 27, 2018 by Ronit Baras In: Education / Learning, Parenting Tags: school, how to, memory, activity, fun, k-12 education, academic performance, practical parenting / parents, teaching / teachers, focus

Who’s Afraid of Exams?

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Many children hate exams. If you ask them what they hate more than homework, they will tell you it is exams. They hate them because it is natural to be anxious in a situation that puts our abilities to the test.

Someone is looking at what you do, checking what you do and then judges you for it. Children don’t like to be judged. Well, in fact, no one likes to be judged.

Many parents say to me, “This is life and kids need to learn to live with it!” and I wonder if this really must be part of life and whether we must live in such a judgmental environment. Maybe we can transfer the focus from what others think about us to self-awareness and what we think about ourselves.

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June 6, 2018 by Ronit Baras In: Education / Learning, Parenting Tags: failure, motivation, assessment, k-12 education, academic performance, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, self confidence / self esteem / self worth, practical parenting / parents, school, anxiety

Education System on Trial and Found Guilty

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Until I studied Education, I had not questioned the education system. I do not think I’d had the tools to question it. But by the time I graduated (in Special Education), I had realized something was wrong. It was easy to see this while working with kids who were different (both gifted and those with learning difficulties).

Why?

Because special education kids did not fit into the “education box” and the school system did not cater for them. It got worse when I realized, thanks to my amazingly wonderful teachers, that the system just did not care for any of the kids, because every child is special and different in some way. The system cared for itself.

It was devastating!

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February 9, 2017 by Ronit Baras In: Education / Learning, Parenting Tags: video, academic performance, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, behavior / discipline, education / learning, special education, practical parenting / parents, school, change, learning disabilities, society, k-12 education

How to Stop Bullying with Empathy: The Story of Two Apples

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Bullying is an epidemic. It touches every part of our life and children are very vulnerable to bullying, because they do not have the tools to prevent it.

From the bully’s point of view, bullying is an act of fear. When the bullies feels inferior for some reason, they search for someone weak to pick on, in an attempt to feel better about themselves. Therefore, the best way to prevent bullying is to develop confidence and for children, this is still work in progress (it is work in progress for grownups too, but children are just at the beginning of this process).

What we need to change the world from bullying to respect and collaboration is empathy. As parents and educators, we can develop empathy in easy and effective ways.

This post is part 35 of 35 in the series Bullying

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February 2, 2017 by Ronit Baras In: Education / Learning Tags: empathy, education / learning, practical parenting / parents, school, how to, change, perception, bullying, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, self confidence / self esteem / self worth

Disrespectful Behavior is a Mirror: Talk With Kids, Not At Them

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“Kids today are very disrespectful” is a common phrase I have heard a lot lately. Parents and teachers are very frustrated about this issue of respect. When children exhibit disrespectful behavior, they get into lots of conflicts and trouble and their ability to learn and absorb information is limited.

Respect is a very popular topic at home and at school. Most parents and teachers demand respect and by that, they do not understand that respect is earned and works like a mirror. When your behavior is disrespectful towards children, they will have no respect for you either.

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November 10, 2016 by Ronit Baras In: Parenting, Education / Learning Tags: practical parenting / parents, conflict, teaching / teachers, k-12 education, compassion, video, kids / children, teens / teenagers, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, behavior / discipline, school, personal development / personal growth / personality development / self improvement, role model, education / learning, relationships / marriage

Experiences, not Possessions: How to Best Spend Money on Your Kids

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If you wonder how to give your kids the best life possible, do not buy them things. Instead, give them great, exciting experiences. Research shows they will remember special events and adventures longer and relive the joy and excitement again and again.

We live in a world of abundance. If you want to understand how much you have today, all you need to do is think of how your life would have been 50 years ago. I like asking myself, “What did my parents not have 50 years ago that I (or my kids) have today?” It is a good lesson in perspective.

Unfortunately, not every person who asks this question reaches the same conclusion. Some people feel grateful and other feel fear. Grateful people, who feel that they are fortunate, tend to appreciate what they have and care for it. Fearful people panic and start to accumulate things. No matter how much they accumulate, they are never happy. Fear takes away the joy of what they already have.

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November 3, 2016 by Ronit Baras In: Parenting Tags: memory, lifestyle, vacation, fun, education / learning, school, practical parenting / parents, money, how to, holidays, travel, happiness

Children with the Kinesthetic Communication Style

Kinesthetic kids love mess. Two boys cutting out Halloween pumpkins

The idea that all kids are the same is false and brings parents and teachers into lots of trouble. Every time these kids are not “the same” as others, they think something is wrong with them. Nothing is wrong with them! They are just different and we should all be happy that there is not such a thing as “one size fits all”.

In my kids’ assessments, I check children’s communication styles. If I know their communication styles, I know what challenges they have and why, and I know the best ways to introduce new information to them.

During our sessions together, I pay attention to how they move. I check if they stand up while they work and if they move their legs or other body part. I notice if they are social and friendly and pay attention to how they talk about others. Moving a lot and talking about emotions, fairness, kindness and caring are typical for kinesthetic children.

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July 26, 2016 by Ronit Baras In: Parenting, Education / Learning Tags: behavior / discipline, emotional intelligence, education / learning, motivation, practical parenting / parents, communication styles, teaching / teachers, learning styles, activity, assessment, social, academic performance, kinesthetic, school, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, touch

Use Your Self-fulfilling Prophecy to Help Your Kids Succeed

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What does “self-fulfilling prophecy” have to do with good education and helping your kids succeed? Everything!

To raise our children to be successful, happy, healthy and productive grownups, we need a holistic approach. Yet our society and education system take a different approach. Governments spend billions of dollars every year to establish and run educational institutes where kids learn literacy and numeracy. Children dedicate 13 to 15 years of their life to learning things that will play a small part of their adult life.

Do not get me wrong, I think it is important to learn to read. I am also a qualified math teacher and think math is important. But tell me, out of a week of your life, with 24 hours a day and 60 minutes every hour, how much time do you analyze poems or find square roots of numbers? Do your amazing English and math abilities determine how happy, successful, healthy, friendly and productive you are?

I wish!

Learning depends greatly on the self-fulfilling prophecy of the teacher. Yes, I know, it sounds harsh, but the quality of the learning is highly dependent on what goes on in the teacher’s mind (and in the holistic approach, parents are also teachers). Every time I finish a day of professional development for teachers, the teachers are surprised to discover that what they think of the students manifests itself in the students’ behavior, social interactions and academic achievements.

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July 14, 2016 by Ronit Baras In: Education / Learning, Parenting Tags: intelligence, self-fulfilling prophecy, k-12 education, education / learning, expectation, projection, practical parenting / parents, school, teaching / teachers, success, beliefs, society, perception

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