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Success vs. Talent: How I almost made the Olympic team

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Some people think that talent is the only thing we need to succeed in life. I thought so too when I was young. I was very talented in gymnastics and I thought that talent was the only thing I needed. It was very hard for me to realize that talent was just a baseline and guaranteed nothing.

I’m all for helping our children find their talent, but finding it, and even pursuing it, is not enough for success. They need something more.

Not long ago, I had the honor of working with two amazing young athletes on the Australian Olympic team. They were both equally talented and had all the physical skills, but one of them had what it takes to succeed, and the other didn’t.

Working with them reminded me of my Olympic team adventure as a child and why talent is not enough for success.

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Published: February 13, 2019 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: February 12, 2019In: Personal Development Tags: persistence, attitude, personal development / personal growth / personality development / self improvement, focus, skills, success, emotional intelligence, how to, motivation, determination, law of attraction

I Want to Become a Life Coach: What You Should Know First

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As an experienced life coach, people often contact me and say, “I want to become a life coach. Teach me what to do”. If you are thinking of becoming a professional life coach too, this post is for you.

Life coaching is an uplifting and fulfilling profession. I have been doing this work, in various formats, for 32 years now. I enjoy every minute of it and find it my life’s purpose. I can highly recommend becoming a life coach as a fantastic option for those who want to help others succeed, achieve and be happy.

Why?

Because in coaching, the clients’ success is our success.

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Published: March 29, 2017 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: March 19, 2021In: Life Coaching, Success / Wealth Tags: persistence, tips, success, how to, purpose, Life Coaching, determination

Eddie the Eagle: Determination and Great Parenting

Eddie the Eagle movie poster

Watching the movie Eddie the Eagle this week made me think again about my own children and the many children I work with. I realized that no one ever gets to the top, whether it is a top in a ski slope, the top of a class, the top of a sport or the top of a skill without determination and without someone holding the ladder while they climb up.

Being a different child is not easy. I know what it means, because I was different. There are two reasons for this. One, you cannot look at others and do what they do. Two, others do not like different people. There is something awkward about them, something that means hard work. Being social means building rapport, and it is hard to relate to someone who is different.

Supporting children in their adventures is linked strongly with the permission we give ourselves, their parents, to dream big. When we practice dreaming and following our dreams, we give our children permission to do the same.

In the movie, Eddie’s dad, who is a plasterer, tries constantly to convince his son to stop trying to be in the Olympics, while his mom is supportive of his adventures. At one point, Eddie asks his dad, “Have you ever had a dream?” and his dad said, “Yes… to be a plasterer”.

Michael (Eddie) Edwards was a clumsy young boy with a physical disability who dreamed of being an Olympic athlete. He is physically challenged and socially unaccepted, and while his mom supports his dreams, his dad does everything in his power to get him “off the clouds” and be “normal”.

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Published: May 10, 2016 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: August 22, 2016In: Parenting, Personal Development Tags: acceptance / judgment / tolerance, self confidence / self esteem / self worth, personal development / personal growth / personality development / self improvement, practical parenting / parents, inspiration, success, emotional intelligence, dreams, determination, affirmations, persistence

100 Tips for My Children

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Over 26 years of being a parent, I have made a huge effort to give my kids the rules of life that, in my belief, will set them up for a better life. Every parent wants to raise happy, healthy, successful, kind, smart, courageous, creative, friendly and wealthy children that have lots of love and happiness in their life.

I say that parenting is a sales job. If you sell your life philosophy to your kids well, you have great relationships with them and you know they will do well. If you are not a good sales person (even if your philosophy works well for you), you will face lots of conflict and frustration.

Years ago, I started writing a series called Things I want my kids to know. I think I want my kids to know everything I have written in this blog, but this series is a good summary. In this post, I would like to give my kids 100 tips from my bag of tips for a happy, healthy, successful and loving life.

I encourage you to make your own list of 100 pieces of advice you want to share with your kids, so that one day, when they ask themselves what you wanted for them, they will have it in writing.

Remember that giving advice is something you give from your own free will, with the full intention of doing good. It is your child’s choice whether to take your advice or not. We give! They need to choose to take. If they don’t take our advice, it may be because they are not in a good relationship with us and there is a distrust. It may be because they are not ready, you haven’t presented it well, you are not a good role model for what you suggest, or their life circumstances are different from yours and they can’t see how they can apply your advice to their life.

This post is part 7 of 7 in the series Things I Want My Kids to Know

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Published: November 24, 2015 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: January 24, 2023In: Personal Development, Parenting Tags: change, forgiveness, relationships / marriage, assertive, love, determination, inspiration, story, success, attitude, emotional intelligence, choice, stress / pressure, trust, self confidence / self esteem / self worth, failure, mobile phone, beliefs, practical parenting / parents

World Peace and Harmony through Kindness

Recently, I was asked to take part in a panel at the United Nations World Peace Conference. The panel members were chosen for being “inspiring people who contributed to world peace”, each in a different way. My way of spreading peace is, and always has been, education. I talked about how parents and teachers can make a difference in the world around us.

The organizers asked my son, Tsoof, who is a musician, to perform at the event, but he was booked. It was a last-minute request, so it was a long-shot, but we still needed entertainment for the day. Luckily, they only needed to fill three minutes.

As a last minute idea, I suggested a song that I had been using in my presentations for 10 years. This song is a big part of my global citizenship program and on some of my free hugs campaigns. It was Jewels’ song, Hands, which I think is my spiritual motto, “Only kindness matters”.

World peace promotion using baby looking in mirror with the writing “The world is like a mirror. If you smile at it, it smiles at you”We can teach kindness in schools if we want to make this world a better place. Some people in the audience recognized the song and as I read out the lyrics, everyone was moved. As the song was played, some tears were shed.

I wish I could have thought of the lyrics myself! They are so powerful and I thank Jewel for the inspiration.

Check out the lyrics for yourself and see if you are moved by them.

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Published: September 8, 2015 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 9, 2024In: Personal Development, Parenting, Education / Learning Tags: kindness, society, determination, free hugs, spiritual, video, school, public speaker, love, presentations, inspiration, personal development / personal growth / personality development / self improvement, men, practical parenting / parents, art, teaching / teachers, music

Strong Affirmations: High Self-Esteem

Strong affirmations

Self-esteem is something that functions like fuel to the body. If we have high self-esteem, the ride is better in many ways. We move forward more smoothly, we have fewer problems and we get to our destination faster.

Everyone has some level of confidence in life. It is just that some people have more than others and they seem to go through life with much more success and happiness. People with high self-esteem have fewer doubts and they don’t blame their “ride” every time things don’t happen the way they want them to be.

Let’s face it, we can’t always get what we expect 100% of the time. If we could, we would be able to predict what will happen in the future (I don’t know if this is a better way to experience life but let’s leave this dilemma for another post). What we can do is make sure our beliefs set us on a very easy, smooth (as much as possible), happy and successful ride. If it can get us forward faster, all the better.

This blog is full of many beliefs about living life with confidence. I have written about ways to instill confidence in our children as parents or teachers. The list of affirmations that promote high self-esteem is endless. If I tried to write a list of them all, I would find myself spending years and never reaching the end of the list. There are millions of thoughts or combinations of thoughts that support high self-esteem and boost confidence. Notice these in yourself and in the world around you. Start collecting them and learning how to adopt them.

This post is part 1 of 6 in the series Affirmations

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Published: October 28, 2014 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: March 2, 2020In: Personal Development Tags: positive attitude tips, teaching / teachers, failure, positive, beliefs, kids / children, mind, self confidence / self esteem / self worth, rules, personal development / personal growth / personality development / self improvement, change, certainty, focus, happiness, education / learning, success, dreams, feeling, emotional intelligence, perception, thought, how to, determination, list, fear, affirmations, practical parenting / parents, choice

How to Be a Great Teacher (A to K)

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As teachers, our teaching ability is an art form that we keep developing throughout our careers. One of the best parts of any professional development courses I run for teachers, is the discussion about our philosophy and tips we can share with others about teaching. Establishing a good teaching philosophy and adopting useful tips from experienced teachers are essential tools for effective teaching.

Here is a guide that has informed my teaching over the years. I hope the teachers reading this blog will find it useful.

Affirmations are very important in education. Things you repeat over and over again become the thoughts and beliefs of your students. Make sure to plant good affirmations in their minds, ones that they will be able to use long after you are not there. “I can do it!” for example, is a great affirmation that will benefit them more in life than an A in math. Watch what you are repeating.

This post is part 2 of 6 in the series A-to-Z Guides

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Published: January 30, 2014 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 25, 2019In: Personal Development, Education / Learning Tags: purpose, emotional development, motivation, teaching / teachers, work life balance, focus, determination, goals / goal setting, school, success experience, responsibility, k-12 education, skills, career, success, kids / children, how to, personal development / personal growth / personality development / self improvement, role model, education / learning, beliefs, expectation

Know Your Partner: Appearance, Work, Money and Health

Welcome to the third installment of “Know Your Partner”. In this series war are talking about questions you and your partner should discuss before you move in together, get married or have kids. These questions will help you find your partner’s “musts”. To read more about “musts”, check out Know Your Partner: Musts. In the last post in the series, we listed questions about relationships, every day life, family background and friends. This post covers questions about appearance, work, money and health.

This post is part 3 of 8 in the series Know Your Partner

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Published: May 7, 2013 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 25, 2019In: Relationships / Marriage Tags: alcohol, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, emotional intelligence, work life balance, health / wellbeing, how to, romance, personal development / personal growth / personality development / self improvement, choice, determination, emotions, beliefs, law of attraction, feeling, separation, activity, thought, rules, obesity, body image, change, positive attitude tips, communication, appearance, happiness, positive, love, income, Life Coaching, attitude, money, partner, relationships / marriage, questions, success, addiction

Know Your Partner: Questions to Ask

Last week, we talked about how every person has “musts”, things they absolutely cannot live without. It is important for each person in a couple to know their partner’s “musts” before they decide to move in together, to get married or to have kids. This week, I thought I would give you a list of questions to help you along your journey. This list includes questions about relationships, everyday life, family background and friends.

This list is very important to use in different relationship situations:

Before moving in with someone.
Before marriage.
Before deciding to have kids.
On anniversaries – in order to update each other about the ways we have changed.
When experiencing relationship conflict.
Before making the decision to break up a partnership.
There are a few rules to remember when asking these questions. This will make the question and answer process more effective and successful:

This post is part 2 of 8 in the series Know Your Partner

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Published: April 30, 2013 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 25, 2019In: Relationships / Marriage Tags: relationships / marriage, personal development / personal growth / personality development / self improvement, success, romance, emotions, emotional intelligence, determination, feeling, how to, law of attraction, thought, choice, activity, beliefs, positive attitude tips, separation, positive, rules, attitude, change, questions, happiness, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, communication, Life Coaching, health / wellbeing, love

Know Your Partner: Musts

Any relationship is a form of agreement between two or more people. The deeper the relationship, the more things you will need to agree on for your relationship to stay positive. Some relationships, like marriage and having children together, are more important than others. They have a huge impact on our lives and our futures. I call them love agreements.

Love agreements will change over time. Just how they change will depend on the circumstances. Each person changes within themselves and their agreements with each other change accordingly. For couples, it is very important for each side to make sure they are “sailing in the same direction”. While each of them may change in different ways, together, they want to be going the same way. If one wants to sail north and the other’s greatest desire is to sail south, then their relationship will suffer. One or both of them will have to compromise.

When we talk about relationships, the word compromise pops up as a desired outcome. I think compromise is important, but I also believe that some compromises cannot last for very long. They are often the source of conflict and can cause much heartache.

This post is part 1 of 8 in the series Know Your Partner

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Published: April 23, 2013 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 25, 2019In: Relationships / Marriage Tags: happiness, questions, communication, Life Coaching, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, love, relationships / marriage, health / wellbeing, success, romance, personal development / personal growth / personality development / self improvement, emotional intelligence, determination, emotions, how to, law of attraction, feeling, choice, story, thought, beliefs, activity, separation, positive attitude tips, rules, positive, change, attitude

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