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How to Keep Negativity Away from You

Girl looking worried while giving the thumbs up

Last week, in Toxic People and Why You Should Stay Away from Them, I wrote about the kinds of people we should stay away from when we feel they are damaging our self-esteem. In this post, I will cover some ways to keep those people away from your heart and minimize their influence on your mind.

The main difficulty we have with energy consumers is that we take their negative influence with us, even when they are not present physically. By taking it with us, we spread the bad vibes to other areas of our life and affect other people in our lives negatively.

Think of this negativity, as a virus that spreads and damages people’s self-esteem. To overcome the virus, you need to find its source and then, make sure it will not spread.

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Published: November 15, 2016 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 26, 2019In: Parenting Tags: how to, mindfulness, negative, change, happiness, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, self confidence / self esteem / self worth, friends / friendship, personal development / personal growth / personality development / self improvement, feeling, practical parenting / parents, forgiveness

Toxic People and Why You Should Stay Away from Them

Ronit, Tsoof and Noff on the Great Ocean Road

I think that the people in our life have the potential to help us evolve into better versions of ourselves. On the other hand, toxic people drain us from energy and do not help us move forward. In some ways, they even take us backwards.

When my youngest sister traveled, I made her a journal to capture her experiences and added quotes. One of them was this:

“Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great.”

– Mark Twain

This quote now hangs on my fridge too.

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Published: November 8, 2016 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 26, 2019In: Personal Development Tags: change, happiness, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, self confidence / self esteem / self worth, friends / friendship, personal development / personal growth / personality development / self improvement, feeling, list, practical parenting / parents, how to, negative

Happy Friendship Anniversary

Couple at sunset

This week, Gal and I celebrated 36 years of being together. We have known each other for 37 years, been a couple for 36, lived together for 31 and been married for 29 years. Every year, we celebrate our friendship anniversary instead of our wedding anniversary, because our wedding experience was not a very happy experience and we would really like to celebrate a happy thing in our life rather than an event we never liked.

I have a relationship philosophy that worked very well for me over the years. I am happy that my philosophy, together with Gal’s, brought us together to this anniversary. We still fight. We still disagree on things. We are very different in many ways, but we are still friends who love each other and care about each other greatly.

In my sessions, I share with my clients my formula for happy relationships. After each session, I send them a summary of the topics we covered, so they can reflect and work on their relationship. I have decided to include them here with the hope that many more people will use them to reach happy, supportive and loving relationships.

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Published: September 27, 2016 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: March 17, 2021In: Relationships / Marriage Tags: how to, Life Coaching, relationships / marriage, romance, positive attitude tips, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, friends / friendship, personal development / personal growth / personality development / self improvement, love, responsibility, inspiration

How Many Friends Can We Really Have?

150 is the number of people with whom one can maintain stable social relationships

In today’s world, when you can have 4,000 “friends” on Facebook, it is hard to determine the true definition of friendship. Knowing 4,000 people (and even only 1,000) does not mean you are friends. It means you know of, or maybe even have been acquainted with, that many people. Sometimes, you share nothing in common other than you happen to have a mutual contact. You might not have even met!

Professor Robin Dunbar, an anthropologist at the University of London, tried to find the answer to the question “How Many Friends Can We Really Have?” He found that there is a limit to how many friends we can have with whom we can maintain meaningful relationships. Dunbar claimed that we can only have relationships with an average of 150 people for them to be considered stable, effective social relationships. This is called Dunbar’s Number.

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Published: June 16, 2015 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: June 16, 2015In: Relationships / Marriage Tags: research, relationships / marriage, social, tips, friends / friendship, media, social media

Moving House Made Easy: Telling the Kids

Snail with house on back saying: we are moving

One major challenge of moving houses is telling the kids about it. Most parents are afraid to do this. They wonder when the right time will be to share the information with the kids and how to do it.

If you have young kids, do not tell them about the move a long time in advance.

Children’s perception of time is not sophisticated enough yet and they will just be anxious. As soon as you tell your kids that the move is on, they begin to deal emotionally by saying goodbye to the people and things around them (this is a coping mechanism we all have to manage). As a result, kids who are about to move away are often not invited to parties. People around them do not invest in their relationships any more.

This happens to adults as well…

This post is part 3 of 13 in the series Moving House Made Easy

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Published: July 15, 2014 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 25, 2019In: Kids / Children, Parenting, Home Tags: success, friends / friendship, emotions, how to, feeling, trust, thought, separation, assumptions, happiness, guilt, perception, practical parenting / parents, positive, kids / children, home / house, communication, acceptance / judgment / tolerance

Knowing Your Happiness

Signs you are truly happy - infographic

I have been teaching happiness for many years and one of the things most of my clients want to know is how to find out when they are happy. You see, people are focused on what is going wrong in their lives. They have signs that tell them that things are not going great. Let me share some with you.

image”I am unhappy when I’m in conflict”

“I am unhappy when I don’t succeed”

“I am unhappy when things don’t happen the way I want them to happen”

“I am unhappy when people do not agree with me”

“I am unhappy when I am tired”

“I am unhappy when I don’t have the money to do all the things I want to do”

“I am unhappy if I can’t predict the future”

“I am unhappy if I am not in control all the time”

“I am unhappy when I worry”

“I am unhappy when people do not appreciate me”

“I am unhappy when others are more successful than me”

Research shows that people have more signs for unhappiness than signs for happiness.

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Published: June 12, 2014 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 25, 2019In: Health / Wellbeing, Life Coaching Tags: choice, research, control, exercise, happiness, Life Coaching, sleep, focus, friends / friendship, gratitude, how to

14 Ways of Developing Empathy in Kids

Elephant and young woman touching foreheads

Empathy plays a very important role in the interaction between human beings. I have been working with children for over 28 years and have found that although some kids are naturally empathic and others are not, empathy can be learned.

Empathy is just one of the elements of Emotional Intelligence (EQ). As teachers, we focus on 4 major components of EQ:

– Recognizing my feelings.
– Managing my feelings.
– Recognizing the feelings of others.
– Helping and supporting others to manage their feelings.

Empathy falls under component 3 (recognizing the feelings of others). Despite it being an element all on its own, we believe that it can contribute greatly to the development of the first two components. We believe that anyone who can understand the feelings of others is better at communicating, managing conflicts and generally has more successful relationships.

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Published: May 20, 2014 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: June 4, 2019In: Parenting, Kids / Children Tags: beliefs, empathy, mind, education / learning, change, thought, relationships / marriage, hobbies, intelligence, emotional development, communication, conflict, practical parenting / parents, focus, compassion, skills, kids / children, success, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, emotional intelligence, behavior / discipline, friends / friendship

How to Feel Good: Smiling

Girl smiling

The tip for today is a very simple way to feel good, instantly – smiling.

The good thing about smiling is that it a two way street – smiling creates a happy feeling, and feeling happy makes you smile. It does not matter where you start – the feeling or the smile. When we experience joy, the muscles in our brain contract and start a positive loop of feeling even more joy. This is not a new science. As early as the 1870s, Charles Darwin first suggested that facial expressions did not just express emotions, but could actually induce them.

Smiling has been studied for years. In 1989, psychologist Robert Zajonc compared the mood of participants asked to make the long “eee” sound (which involves the same muscles as smiling) and those who were asked to make a long “ooo” sound (which involves the same muscles as frowning). Zajonc found that the people who made the “eee” sound felt much better.

This post is part 2 of 4 in the series How to Feel Good

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Published: March 18, 2014 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 25, 2019In: Personal Development, Health / Wellbeing Tags: emotions, social, feeling, women, career, expectation, men, positive, success, presentations, emotional intelligence, kids / children, how to, tips, research, stress / pressure, health / wellbeing, happiness, friends / friendship, romance, personal development / personal growth / personality development / self improvement, hope

The Art of Listening: Things to Watch Out For

Listen to hear, not to speak

To conclude The Art of Listening series, here are some tips on things to watch out for in deciding which listening style to adopt.

In previous posts, I covered situations when it is hard to listen, types of listening and how to become good listeners. However, putting all this into practice means you need to know when it is appropriate to adopt one style over another. There are some things to watch out for in making that decision.

Be a kind listener when:
1. The speaker is angry or in a bad mood.
2. The speaker feels judged or stressed.
3. When you want to please the listener or need something from him/her.

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Published: January 14, 2014 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 25, 2019In: Personal Development, Relationships / Marriage Tags: change, relationships / marriage, social skills, listening, positive, tips, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, focus, friends / friendship, emotional intelligence, personal development / personal growth / personality development / self improvement, how to, empathy, negative, feeling

The Art of Listening: How to Listen

Listen more, talk less

To wrap up our the “The Art of Listening” series , here are some great tips on how to become a better listener.

To start off, we discussed 10 situations that turn off the listening switch and make it harder to keep engaged. In the previous post, I shared four listening types: the kind listener, the empathetic listener, the critical listener and the solution focused listener.

In this post, I will share ideas of how to become a kind listener, an empathetic listener, a critical listener and a solution focused listener and how to use each of these listening styles when appropriate.

This post is part 3 of 3 in the series The Art of Listening

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Published: December 19, 2013 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 25, 2019In: Personal Development, Relationships / Marriage Tags: how to, personal development / personal growth / personality development / self improvement, change, empathy, motivation, assumptions, relationships / marriage, listening, social, positive, questions, tips, focus, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, emotional intelligence, friends / friendship

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