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Optimism or "What’s the big fuss about Emotional Intelligence (Emotional Quotient)?"

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Since the Be Happy in LIFE program and the Garden of Eden program are based on promoting Emotional Intelligence, I have been asked many times to explain the main idea behind them.

Although Emotional Intelligence (EQ – Emotional Quotient) became popular after the publication of Daniel Goleman’s Book, Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ, in 1995, it was researched and developed during the 70’s and 80’s.

It was psychologist Howard Gardner’s book Frames of Mind, Frames of Mind: The Theory of Multiple Intelligences, which began the development of EQ.

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Published: March 3, 2008 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: March 18, 2021In: Emotional Intelligence, Kids / Children, Parenting, Education / Learning Tags: school, child care, values, k-12 education, success, positive attitude tips, emotional intelligence, education / learning, failure, kindergarten, toddlers, focus, communication styles, early childhood, learning styles

Be a Good Sport! (part 2)

Girl basketball team

This is the second part of yesterday’s Be a Good Sport!, which includes the last 5 things we need to do as parents to make sure our kids take the positive out of sports rather than the negative.

Excitement vs. Anxiety

When kids are excited about their sport, they are pumped up and ready to conquer the world. There is a positive outcome to this excitement and many coaches dedicate much energy to create this excitement in their players.

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Published: February 29, 2008 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 24, 2019In: Health / Wellbeing, Parenting, Teens / Teenagers, Emotional Intelligence, Kids / Children Tags: sport, exercise, motivation, fat, stress / pressure, anxiety

Be a Good Sport! (part 1)

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On the weekend, when all the sport teams are on the field are kicking or passing a ball, it is easy to see that they are not the only ones sweating.

From the bench, a group of anxious parents try to give instructions that can hardly be heard on the field. The quieter ones try using the power of their thoughts to push the ball to the left.

It is funny to watch. Parents move their bodies as if they can help their kids move the ball straight into the basket or the goal.

Well, the truth is that parents can help a lot in directing their kids, but the playing filed is the last place to do that.

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Published: February 28, 2008 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 24, 2019In: Parenting, Teens / Teenagers, Emotional Intelligence, Kids / Children, Health / Wellbeing Tags: motivation, fat, kids / children, behavior / discipline, health / wellbeing, practical parenting / parents, sport, exercise

Teens Today Aren’t Like We Used to Be

Teenage boys looking at their phones

In my work with parents and teens, I here many times the phrase “Teens today aren’t like we used to be”.

Really?

I remember this from a friend of mine from high school and his dad when we were 18. Every time when we came to visit my friend, his dad gave us the spiel about how motivated, well mannered, hard working and respectful his generation was and how horrible, suffering from peer pressure, disrespectful and lazy we were.

I remember asking him one day if his parents did not say the same thing about him when he was 18.

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Published: February 27, 2008 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 24, 2019In: Parenting, Teens / Teenagers, Emotional Intelligence Tags: research, generation gap, teens / teenagers, behavior / discipline

Kids and Humor

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Kids laugh a lot but not everything is funny for them. Watching them can teach us a lot about the complication required to understand humor. The younger the kids, the clumsier they are at telling jokes, and many of them do not think jokes are funny at all.

In the early years, kids laugh at things that do not seem funny at all to the adults. At the age of 6 or 7, kids discover humor when they start to understand the double meaning of words. Only at that stage, when their language develops enough, do they have the capacity to shift from one verbal meaning to the other.

This understanding is so important that they can never get to the punch line without it.

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Published: February 26, 2008 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 24, 2019In: Emotional Intelligence, Kids / Children, Health / Wellbeing, Parenting Tags: happiness, social skills, stress / pressure, health / wellbeing

Happy Kids Learn Better

Child learning

For many years, gaining knowledge was the reason kids were sent to school. Knowledge, for many years, was king.

In today’s fast world and overwhelming information, we see many kids in school that have great knowledge but not the ability to succeed in their schooling. What do you think the reason is?

Emotional intelligence was researched during the 70s and the 80s when Howard Gardner wrote in his book Frames of Mind: The Theory of Multiple Intelligences about his Multiple Intelligence theory. Basically, based on Gardner’s theory, people can have talents and exceptional abilities in areas other than academics.

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Published: February 25, 2008 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 24, 2019In: Kids / Children, Parenting, Education / Learning Tags: kids coaching, happiness, communication styles, learning styles, learning disabilities, k-12 education, academic performance, school, kids / children, success, education / learning, emotional intelligence

The Be Happy in LIFE Kids Coaching Program

A row of happy kids

Last month, I wrote about the reasons we as parents need to appreciate and use coaching as a parenting tool.

Today, I would like to tell you a little bit about how it all started for me and introduce the Be Happy in LIFE kids coaching program.

It all started 18 years ago, when I wrote the Garden of Eden program, which put most of the emphasis emotional intelligence. I started an early childhood center with kids aged 1½ to 4 and proved that excellence depends on the teaching, not on the kids.

In the 2 years that followed, the kids at my center accomplished things that blew their parents away. They put together puzzles with many pieces very quickly, they built elaborate constructions, they painted the walls, they recognized written words and lots more. Oh, yes, and they ate healthy food and boasted about it.

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Published: February 21, 2008 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 24, 2019In: Kids / Children, Life Coaching, Parenting Tags: child care, family matters, mother, k-12 education, father, academic performance, mom, practical parenting / parents, dad, teaching / teachers, kids coaching, kindergarten, toddlers, early childhood, happiness, success, learning disabilities, emotional intelligence

The War on ADHD

Boy concentrating on homework

This is great! A couple of weeks ago, I posted my thoughts on ADHD in ADHD Must Be Contagious. This started quite a bit of a discussion on a site dedicated to ADHD families, in a post titled “Life coach wonders if ADHD is contagious”.

The author, who has kids with ADHD, agreed with some of my points, but did not agree with others. Others made some strong comments, describing their own experience as hyperactive individuals or their relatives.

I believe that awareness is very important and we need to discuss our agreements and disagreements regarding ADHD in order to find a solution for us all – kids, parents and teachers.

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Published: February 19, 2008 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 24, 2019In: Parenting, Education / Learning, Kids / Children, Did You Know? Tags: eating disorders, learning disabilities, fat, k-12 education, attention deficit / add / adhd, diet, behavior / discipline, body image, hyperactive, food

Kids are Like Fish

Gold Fish

Kids are like fish. No, not because they are pretty and cute (although they are pretty and cute) but because their ability to grow depends on their environment, much like fish.

Did you know that fish will grow to the size that will be supported by their surroundings?

If you put a fish in a small bowl, it will grow to fit the size of the bowl. If you take the same fish into a small pond, it will grow bigger. If you move it to a lake, the same fish can grow to be big, really big.

Kids also have this fishy characteristic. For them, life is a fish bowl and they depend on the grown ups in their life to find a good size bowl to call home. They also depend on the grown ups in their life to “clean the water” and supply them with “food”.

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Published: February 12, 2008 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 24, 2019In: Parenting, Kids / Children, Did You Know? Tags: self confidence / self esteem / self worth, mother, personal development / personal growth / personality development / self improvement, father, practical parenting / parents, mom, dad, rules, happiness, family matters, emotional intelligence, k-12 education, kids / children, behavior / discipline, safety

Happy Parents – The Magic Formula for Happy Kids

Pregnant belly with hand prints

In Israel, there is a form of communal living called “Kibutz”, where children live in a room with other kids almost from birth and are being cared for by a carer. In that arrangement, parents came to spend time with their kids before and after work, met them for breakfast, lunch and dinner in the communal dining hall but the kids spent most of their life with their carers and friends and hardly ever slept at “home”. A research over 40 years found the most amazing thing – although those kids spent fairly little time together with their parents, all of them declared that their parents had the biggest influence on their life.

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Published: February 11, 2008 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 24, 2019In: Parenting, Opinion, Emotional Intelligence, Kids / Children Tags: communication styles, learning styles, k-12 education, school, kids / children, education / learning, practical parenting / parents, mother, father, mom, dad, happiness

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