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In Excess

In the not-so-distant past, most people lived in small places and had to do things themselves. They grew crops, cared for animals, sewed their own clothes, built their own houses, met the same small group of people from childhood to old age and learned about the rest of the world only when strangers came to town.

When something broke, those “olden days” people had to fix it themselves or take it to a specialist, such as the blacksmith or the cobbler. Time was cheap and materials, like metal and medicine, were very expensive and hard to get. There was a lot of time, so life was slow. There was a lot of space and travel was slow, so there was little change.

The world’s culture evolved around this lifestyle. The main values taught to kids were self-sufficiency, industry, thriftiness, modesty, discipline and courtesy. When they grew up, they also learned faithfulness and responsibility.

I have a feeling your parents may have tried to instill some of these values in you too, even if your life was quite different. I know mine did, as did the parents of all my friends.

The general focus of people was on getting things and keeping them. There was little choice, so what people got, they enjoyed.

Today, life is radically different for most people. Most people live in big cities, have easy access to large amounts of food, drink, clothes and other goods and are exposed to a never-ending stream of high-pressured information through the TV, the radio, the Internet, the mobile phone, printed media and various other means.

The general focus of people should be on choosing things and enjoying them. But it is not.

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Published: August 11, 2010 by Gal Baras
Last modified: March 19, 2021In: Health / Wellbeing, Parenting Tags: beliefs, change, happiness, society, lifestyle, focus, relaxation, values, time management, emotional intelligence, stress / pressure, fear, health / wellbeing, choice, practical parenting / parents

Top Parenting Bloggers Discuss (13): Parenting Teens

Parenting teens is considered the most scary period for every parents. I heard endless times the mantra “Wait until your kids become teenagers” and when Eden was young, I did find this warning scary. After all, I had not been an easy teen for my parents (not that I had been an easy kid either).

Yet, the more Eden grew, the more I realized that for my parents, my teen years had been years of reason, success and happiness. While other parents had talked about their kids turning into monsters during their teen years, my parents had found joy parenting me for the first time in, because I had finally done well socially and academically.

This thought made me dedicate a big chunk of my education career to teens and even today, I often deal with parenting teens in my parenting workshops. I even wrote a book for parents, educators and teenagers to bust the myth of “those obnoxious teens”.

I asked our Top Parenting Bloggers what they think about parenting teens. Some of them are parents of teens, other are not yet, but it is interesting to read what they think.

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Published: June 18, 2010 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: September 25, 2026In: Parenting, Teens / Teenagers Tags: art, success, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, emotional intelligence, behavior / discipline, how to, practical parenting / parents, fear, trust, beliefs, teen books, communication, lifestyle, values, self-fulfilling prophecy, men, teens / teenagers

Life Philosophy

Our story takes place somewhere in China in 1999. Ronit is in our hotel room, taking a nap, and I am walking around the yard with Eden (10) and Tsoof (4). We explore the pool and the various entertainment areas and we talk about philosophy.

I thought I would share this story with you because while I was telling these things to Eden in China, I learned a lot myself too. It made me feel good about choices that had previously been unconscious. I was also happy to get Eden thinking about the way she wanted to live, because most of my life had been handed down to me and I had lived it by habit and not by choice.

“There’s a nice story about Buddha, Confucius and Lao Tzu (the founder of Taoism) sampling pickles out of a barrel”, I said.

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Published: May 5, 2010 by Gal Baras
Last modified: December 25, 2019In: Life Coaching, Parenting, Personal Development Tags: society, lifestyle, story, focus, behavior / discipline, values, personal development / personal growth / personality development / self improvement, choice, practical parenting / parents, beliefs, purpose, happiness, motivation, Life Coaching

Top Parenting Bloggers Discuss (6): Education

Whether we pay for it through taxes or fees, the education system is a service to us parents. Most parents, even if they can afford to stay home and be their kids’ teacher, would rather go to work and do something else. Although parents are the most important educators of their own kids, being a teacher is a whole different skill that would be unfair to expect every parent to master.

When we send our kids to school, we share an important part of parenting with others. Our kids spend 12 to 13 years of their life in the education system with other people who pass on their knowledge, values and attitudes to them. Sometimes, we can afford to choose these people directly, but often, we are bound by financial or geographical circumstances and we do not have much of a choice.

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Published: April 30, 2010 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: September 25, 2026In: Parenting, Education / Learning Tags: emotional intelligence, choice, society, k-12 education, focus, academic performance, vision, special education, behavior / discipline, school, love languages, love, education / learning, responsibility, practical parenting / parents, values

Kids are Always Watching

Last week, I had a meeting with a government official about my parenting program “Happy Parents Raise Happy Kids”. We talked about how parenting programs focus on behavior management, which I find problematic.

Anyway, after a long conversation about parenting, the man asked me a tough question, “Well Ronit, if you could summarize the most important thing for parents in one sentence, what would that be?”

“Only one?” I asked, trying to buy time (this was like writing on twitter and only having 140 characters).

“Yes, Ronit, only one”, he smiled.

So I thought about it. It was painful. It would be easier to find 10 things than just one. Finally, I said…

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Published: April 26, 2010 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: March 18, 2021In: Parenting Tags: behavior / discipline, focus, practical parenting / parents, projection, responsibility, values, emotional intelligence, how to, choice, society, lifestyle, kids / children

Top Parenting Bloggers Discuss (5): Ideal Child

The question “What’s an ideal child?” comes up many times in my parenting workshops. I find it fascinating to discover and re-discover that some parents have only a vague idea of what an ideal child should be like, yet they are disappointed with their own children for not being ideal.

Furthermore, much of these parents’ daily energy is spent on maximizing their kids’ academic achievements, but in their definition of the ideal child, there is no mention of academic achievement.

Our definition of the ideal child forms the framework of our parenting plan. Whether our definition is conscious or not, it still determines how we relate to our kids.

In this part of Top Parenting Bloggers Discuss, I asked each blogger to describe their ideal child. I find it interesting that each of them had a different definition of what it means to them.

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Published: April 23, 2010 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: September 25, 2026In: Parenting Tags: emotional intelligence, how to, choice, beliefs, focus, mom, vision, academic performance, projection, kids / children, love, values, behavior / discipline, men, practical parenting / parents, art

High Standards: Blessing or Curse?

At first, this post may seem like a gripe session, but bear with me, because there is a serious point to all this bitching and moaning. Thank you for your patience and I hope you enjoy the stories along the way.

The whole idea came to my mind at a big event our family attended last weekend. The weather was perfect, the setting was beautiful – wide green lawn surrounded by impressive buildings with a classical appearance, stalls with food and various arts and crafts and a main stage – and the program was very promising, with shows and activities for the kids and lots of entertainment.

As the day progressed, I found myself being more and more annoyed by what happened, which made me wonder whether high standards may not be the cause of my unhappiness and what I should be teaching my kids.

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Published: April 21, 2010 by Gal Baras
Last modified: December 25, 2019In: Emotional Intelligence, Parenting Tags: kids / children, focus, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, projection, practical parenting / parents, values, emotional intelligence, choice, beliefs, happiness, motivation, lifestyle

The Art of Misery (Advanced)

Two years ago, I wrote about choosing to be miserable in the The Art of Misery. It is amazing how many people in the world qualify for the Certificate of Misery and have mastered this art. For some strange reason, it is easier to master misery than happiness. I do not know exactly why that is, but for most people, the definition of happiness is so hard to achieve they can never be happy. Even when they have a happy moment, it does not last long enough to get them to the next happy moment.

In The Art of Misery, I gave 10 lessons in misery with clear instructions on how to pass each test and gradually move on to the next level. Although I wrote that only those who completed the program would be entitled to the certificate, I have discovered it is enough for people to master some of the lessons to declare themselves eligible.

In the last two years, I have had many requests to extend the misery course and I believe the time has finally come. After two years of practicing and holding your misery certificate, you are ready for the next level. Today, in the second part of the Misery Mastery “training program”, I will improve, refine and help you upgrade your skills. I will add 10 more things you can do if being just miserable is not enough and you really, really want to be extremely miserable.

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Published: April 12, 2010 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: October 6, 2021In: Personal Development Tags: focus, dreams, values, lifestyle, success, relaxation, emotional intelligence, positive, how to, fear, stress / pressure, negative, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, beliefs, self confidence / self esteem / self worth, happiness, personal development / personal growth / personality development / self improvement, motivation, goals / goal setting, relationships / marriage

Top Parenting Bloggers Discuss (3): Best Parent Qualities

In the first post, our top parenting bloggers introduced themselves and their philosophy on life. In the second post, each parenting blogger gave their view on the top challenges of parenting (because knowing what we are facing is half the solution). Today, our top parenting bloggers discuss the best qualities parents should have. Like in […]

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Published: April 9, 2010 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: September 25, 2026In: Parenting Tags: role model, motivation, communication, relationships / marriage, focus, lifestyle, love, family matters, responsibility, kids / children, values, skills, behavior / discipline, inspiration, practical parenting / parents, emotional intelligence, how to

Top Parenting Bloggers Discuss (2): Parenting Challenges

Last week, we started the new project Top Parenting Bloggers Discuss when every blogger introduced him or herself. If this is your first visit here, check each blogger on Top Parenting Bloggers Discuss (1): Introduction.

Parenting brings a lot of joy, but it also comes with many challenges. In the personal development world, we say that if you know what your problem is, you are half way to the solution. To get half way to the solution, I have asked each top parenting blogger for their list of the 5 biggest challenges parents face today.

Here is what they thought (some of the emphasis is mine).

What are the 5 biggest challenges parents face today?

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Published: March 26, 2010 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: September 25, 2026In: Parenting Tags: choice, practical parenting / parents, safety, happiness, communication, motivation, focus, relationships / marriage, school, lifestyle, abuse, family matters, values, time management, inspiration, kids / children, emotional intelligence, how to, health / wellbeing

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