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Choosing the Right Career Path for Your Kids

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Parents worry about their children choosing the right career path. Some people start these worries very early in their kids’ life. I know parents who have registered their babies to a special daycare center when the mother discovered she was pregnant.

Don’t get me wrong, I think education is important and planning children’s future is important too, but choosing a child’s career path before he or she is born?

I met Miguel when he contacted me about child coaching. He wanted me to work with his son, Luca. When I asked him and his wife to tell me about Luca, they only had negative things to say right from the start.

This post is part 18 of 19 in the series From the Life Coaching Deck

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Published: August 29, 2018 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: August 13, 2020In: Parenting Tags: control, motivation, dreams, career, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, practical parenting / parents, success

I’m Disappointed in You!

Boy sitting sadly on a stone step after someone said to him "I'm disappointed in you"

Think of the last time anyone said to you, “I’m disappointed in you”. How did that make you feel?

Being disappointed is part of life. I guess it is one of the greatest challenges in life. Realizing that life is not happening the way you want and managing to push through despite it.

Although being disappointed is part of life, being disappointed in others should not be. When I work with my life coaching clients, we deal with a lot of disappointment. Sadly, what hurts them most is not self-disappointment – that things didn’t happen the way they “should have” – but being a disappointment to someone close.

When I think of all the times I have heard this, I can see two groups of people that express disappointment in my clients: teachers and parents, in this order. I dare say that they cause a lot of damage.

Disappointment is “sadness or displeasure caused by the non-fulfilment of one’s hopes or expectations”. Therefore, saying to someone, “I’m disappointed in you”, is telling that person he or she is not fulfilling your hopes and expectations.

Who are you to cause someone a bad feeling for not fulfilling your expectations?

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Published: August 22, 2018 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: April 28, 2020In: Parenting, Education / Learning Tags: k-12 education, kids / children, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, self confidence / self esteem / self worth, expectation, abuse, guilt, role model, practical parenting / parents, trust, teaching / teachers, failure, motivation, affirmations

Family Goal Setting: Set Yourself Up for Success

Father and daughters blowing bubbles

Family goal setting is very important. If you’ve had a chance to read the post about family goals, you know that for a family to be happy and successful, you need driven parents who give good instructions to their “taxi driver”.

The taxi driver is the “creature” we have in our mind that at any point in time, asks us “where would you like me to take you?” and to do a good job, he needs two sets of coordinates – pickup point and destination – and very clear and specific instructions.

If you’ve answered the tough questions in the previous post, you should now have a better perspective on what you want your family to be like. You are already in better shape than most of the parents in the world.

I can tell you that in my personal research of thousands of parents, most of them didn’t know what they wanted. They were the kind of passengers that tell their driver, “Drive”, without saying where. They say, “I don’t know what to expect. Just take me to where most people go”. This guarantees they will get lost and bump into lots of traffic jams.

This post is part 2 of 7 in the series Family Goals

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Published: August 15, 2018 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: April 19, 2020In: Parenting Tags: practical parenting / parents, goals / goal setting, responsibility, success, how to, dreams, family matters, questions, personal development / personal growth / personality development / self improvement

Parenting Autistic Children: Catch 22

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The previous post in this series told the story of my first encounter with autism at a special school where I did work experience for 6 months. Today, I would like to introduce the problems families face when they notice something wrong in their child’s development. As you will see, the way the system works puts them in a Catch 22 situation.

Bringing a child into the world is a very exciting event in every family’s history. Noticing that something is wrong with a child is not easy to experience. As I’ve said before, mothers of autistic children were blamed in the past for the situation by the claim they did not connect with their child during the first weeks after birth.

Most of those moms sighed in relief when the results of an experiment confirmed that autistic babies were different from “normal” babies.

In the first stage of the research, every mom was given recordings of her baby crying and asked to guess the reason for the crying. Most moms of “normal” babies guessed correctly, while moms of autistic babies didn’t. So, those who advocated for the “let’s blame the mothers” said, “OK, then. That’s our proof”.

But the experiment continued.

This post is part 4 of 4 in the series Autism

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Published: August 1, 2018 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: August 1, 2018In: Parenting, Education / Learning Tags: practical parenting / parents, autism, early childhood, special education, research, kindergarten, learning disabilities, child care

Family Goals: Let’s Ask the Tough Questions

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Some people think it’s funny to talk about family goals, because they link goals with business and a family is not a business.

That’s true! They are not the same, but what drives them forward is exactly the same. Please note the word “drive”. Imagine that running a family is like driving a car. I can be a beaten car, no fuel, flat tires, squeaking wipers and no lights, or it can be in tip-top shape and race forward with air conditioning, a sound system, brand new tires and bright lights to show the way.

Which car are you driving your family in? What conditions are you creating for relationships to be strong and for the family members to succeed and be happy?

This post is part 1 of 7 in the series Family Goals

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Published: July 18, 2018 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: November 12, 2018In: Parenting Tags: goals / goal setting, responsibility, success, how to, dreams, family matters, questions, personal development / personal growth / personality development / self improvement, practical parenting / parents

Autistic School: First Encounter with Autism

Autistic child

My first encounter with autism was when I was a Special Education student. From the very first year of studies, my classmates and I worked with children on the autistic spectrum and accompanied some children with severe autism at school. At the start of my second year, I had to choose a place for work experience.

I remember the day our head of department came to shows us the list of options. The autistic school was not on the list, so I asked about it – not because I wanted to work there, but because I was afraid of it.

You see, my philosophy was to choose all the things I was afraid of. I figured that it was the best time to challenge myself and get over my fears. This is why I chose to specialize in Math and this is why I asked about the autistic school.

The head of the department explained to all of us that they didn’t offer work experience at the autistic school because we were not ready for it. She said people did this type of work after they graduated.

This post is part 3 of 4 in the series Autism

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Published: July 11, 2018 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 26, 2019In: Parenting, Education / Learning Tags: autism, special education, touch, learning disabilities, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, practical parenting / parents

How to Make Learning Fun with 50 Great Activities

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If your kids go to school, you must be wondering how to make learning fun. Some teachers are good at this, but many are not, so it’s up to parents to add spice to the learning process.

Learning takes a big part of our life. As babies, we learn all the time. I can look at my granddaughter after not seeing her for 3 days and see she’s learned new things. And she has a lot of fun learning.

Later in life, we go to school to learn in a structured, controlled environment that doesn’t take into consideration that the brain needs to be open to absorb new knowledge. Sadly, I think that in the format it is now, school destroys a big part of our ability to learn.

I work with many children and the system has failed to instill the love for learning in them. I also work with grownups that consider school a traumatic period of their life.

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Published: June 27, 2018 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 18, 2022In: Education / Learning, Parenting Tags: k-12 education, academic performance, practical parenting / parents, teaching / teachers, focus, school, how to, memory, activity, fun

Teen Drug Education Starts at Home

Man in hoodie holding a Stop Drugs sign

I think most parents are worried their teens might be (or are) using drugs. Those who are not so worried typically used drugs themselves when they were young and keep telling themselves, “I turned out OK, so my child will ‘get it out of the system’ and grow out of it”.

This is nice, but one small mistake will make sure your child will never grow at all.

Every parent of a teen hosting a party at home debates whether or not it is OK for the teen guests to use drugs and what to do about it.

There are some people who give their teens drugs to use in the company of their friends to be perceived “cool”. They say they are using those same drugs themselves and don’t see any harm in doing it.

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Published: June 14, 2018 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: June 2, 2024In: Parenting, Health / Wellbeing Tags: addiction, practical parenting / parents, drugs, responsibility, society, video, health / wellbeing

Who’s Afraid of Exams?

Exam score

Many children hate exams. If you ask them what they hate more than homework, they will tell you it is exams. They hate them because it is natural to be anxious in a situation that puts our abilities to the test.

Someone is looking at what you do, checking what you do and then judges you for it. Children don’t like to be judged. Well, in fact, no one likes to be judged.

Many parents say to me, “This is life and kids need to learn to live with it!” and I wonder if this really must be part of life and whether we must live in such a judgmental environment. Maybe we can transfer the focus from what others think about us to self-awareness and what we think about ourselves.

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Published: June 6, 2018 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 26, 2024In: Education / Learning, Parenting Tags: academic performance, focus, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, special education, self confidence / self esteem / self worth, school, practical parenting / parents, love, men, anxiety, failure, motivation, assessment, k-12 education

From Sickness to Health: Working Together on a Shared Goal

Ronit Baras with her mother and younger sisters

Last week, I shared with you how the stories my mother told herself brought pain into their life. My mother was in constant pain and was on loads of medications and pain killers and nothing really helped. She was depressed and often talked about dying. Even the joy of having 5 new grandchildren in the last 8 years didn’t help her, and my mom loves babies very much.

Today, I would like to tell you how my siblings and I gathered and made choices to change my mom’s life and heal her.

It started a year before my parents came to visit. My dad seemed very frustrated. Even the doctors said my mother needed mental help. One day, my siblings and I created a WhatsApp group and considered different ways to approach the problem.

This post is part 2 of 11 in the series From Sickness to Health

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Published: March 28, 2018 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 26, 2019In: Parenting, Health / Wellbeing, Personal Development Tags: beliefs, change, perception, attitude, health / wellbeing, personal development / personal growth / personality development / self improvement

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