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Parenting the Socrates Way: Asking Questions

There is a period in children’s development when they ask questions in response to everything you say. I remember the “Why” as my kids’ way of learning.

“Eden, please bring me the plate form the table”

“Why do you want the plate?”

“I want to put the egg on it”

“Why do you want to put the egg on it?”

“So you can take it to the table and eat it”

“Why do you want me to eat it?”

“Eggs are healthy. If you eat your egg, you won’t be hungry and you will be healthy”

“Why do you want me to be healthy?”

And this went on and on and on… If I remember correctly, most of these conversations ended with “because I have said so”.

I think that Socrates, the great philosopher, never got over this stage of his development and perhaps this is what got him going on his quest for knowledge and understanding of life. Mentally, Socrates was just a curious kid. His mind was full of questions and through them he gained a lot of wisdom.

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Published: May 13, 2008 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: March 31, 2020In: Parenting, Teens / Teenagers, Relationships / Marriage, Kids / Children Tags: empowerment, relationships / marriage, kids / children, teens / teenagers, education / learning, practical parenting / parents, communication, early childhood, how to

Super Kids: When Academic Success is Just a Side Effect

Tsoof Baras

Last week, on our way back home from a weekend at friends’ house, our 12-year-old son Tsoof asked if we thought he was a “super kid”.

In the past year, we talked to him a lot about three kids in his music department that everyone, including us, thinks of as “super kids”. They are older than Tsoof and are very very very smart and talented. All three of them are wonderful role models for him.

Well, this made us wonder about Tsoof too.

Tsoof was born 12 years ago in California after a lot of heartache and waiting. By the age of 4, he had already lived in 4 countries with two languages and travelled to 6 other countries as a fun-loving, happy and curious child.

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Published: March 28, 2008 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: January 22, 2020In: Parenting, Education / Learning, Emotional Intelligence, Kids / Children, Success / Wealth Tags: k-12 education, kids / children, education / learning, practical parenting / parents, school, music, success

Should my child repeat a year at school or not?

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This question usually comes up after a teacher tells a child’s parents that the child is not keeping up with their schoolwork. Often, the teacher actually suggests that the child repeat a year.

However, although the indication given is academic, the problem is most often emotional.

If the reason for the child’s poor performance is academic, I believe there is no point repeating a year. If there is a real difficulty, time is not the cure!

It is better to offer special support to the child during and after school, or in extreme cases, in a special school.

However…

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Published: March 19, 2008 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: February 29, 2020In: Kids / Children, Parenting, Education / Learning, Ask Ronit Tags: kids / children, school, education / learning, success, practical parenting / parents, emotional intelligence, happiness, communication styles, learning styles, social skills, k-12 education, academic performance

Should I Choose a Single-sex School for My Child?

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The single-sex school originated during the 18th century, when rich families sent their sons to “special” schools. Only later, in the 19th century, when the awareness of the value of education increased, were girls also sent to study. Single-sex schools were very popular in England and now also in Australia.

Today, the single-sex schools are popular among religious populations and even more during high school.

Supporters of single-sex schools believe they help kids concentrate on their academic work and avoid the sexual distractions of adolescence.

Critics believe that some social skills relating to the opposite sex reaches its peak development during teenage and that if teens do not have enough practice, this limit their social skills and their ability to relate later on.

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Published: March 14, 2008 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: January 21, 2020In: Ask Ronit, Did You Know?, Parenting, Education / Learning, Opinion Tags: communication styles, school, learning styles, gender, social skills, skills, k-12 education, success, academic performance, behavior / discipline, mother, education / learning, father, practical parenting / parents, mom, dad, happiness

How School Promotes Low Self Esteem

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Last week, in Self Esteem Mini-Course (part 1), I wrote about the definition of self-esteem. This week, let us explore how school promotes low self-esteem in children and shapes our society in the opposite way.

Since our self-esteem is based on our perception of ourselves and school is the place we spend most of our time between the ages of 6 and 12, every school experience either increases or decreases our self-esteem.

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Published: March 11, 2008 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 24, 2019In: Emotional Intelligence, Kids / Children, Did You Know?, Life Coaching, Parenting, Education / Learning Tags: focus, k-12 education, school, positive attitude tips, success, kids / children, self confidence / self esteem / self worth, education / learning, negative, practical parenting / parents, failure, beliefs, communication styles, learning styles

Optimism or "What’s the big fuss about Emotional Intelligence (Emotional Quotient)?"

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Since the Be Happy in LIFE program and the Garden of Eden program are based on promoting Emotional Intelligence, I have been asked many times to explain the main idea behind them.

Although Emotional Intelligence (EQ – Emotional Quotient) became popular after the publication of Daniel Goleman’s Book, Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ, in 1995, it was researched and developed during the 70’s and 80’s.

It was psychologist Howard Gardner’s book Frames of Mind, Frames of Mind: The Theory of Multiple Intelligences, which began the development of EQ.

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Published: March 3, 2008 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: March 18, 2021In: Education / Learning, Emotional Intelligence, Kids / Children, Parenting Tags: kindergarten, toddlers, focus, communication styles, early childhood, learning styles, school, child care, values, k-12 education, success, positive attitude tips, emotional intelligence, education / learning, failure

Happy Kids Learn Better

Child learning

For many years, gaining knowledge was the reason kids were sent to school. Knowledge, for many years, was king.

In today’s fast world and overwhelming information, we see many kids in school that have great knowledge but not the ability to succeed in their schooling. What do you think the reason is?

Emotional intelligence was researched during the 70s and the 80s when Howard Gardner wrote in his book Frames of Mind: The Theory of Multiple Intelligences about his Multiple Intelligence theory. Basically, based on Gardner’s theory, people can have talents and exceptional abilities in areas other than academics.

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Published: February 25, 2008 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 24, 2019In: Kids / Children, Parenting, Education / Learning Tags: kids coaching, happiness, communication styles, learning styles, learning disabilities, k-12 education, academic performance, school, kids / children, success, education / learning, emotional intelligence

Happy Parents – The Magic Formula for Happy Kids

Pregnant belly with hand prints

In Israel, there is a form of communal living called “Kibutz”, where children live in a room with other kids almost from birth and are being cared for by a carer. In that arrangement, parents came to spend time with their kids before and after work, met them for breakfast, lunch and dinner in the communal dining hall but the kids spent most of their life with their carers and friends and hardly ever slept at “home”. A research over 40 years found the most amazing thing – although those kids spent fairly little time together with their parents, all of them declared that their parents had the biggest influence on their life.

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Published: February 11, 2008 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 24, 2019In: Parenting, Opinion, Emotional Intelligence, Kids / Children Tags: communication styles, learning styles, k-12 education, school, kids / children, education / learning, practical parenting / parents, mother, father, mom, dad, happiness

Kids Coaching? Of Course!

Girl smiling and playing guitar - kids coaching can do this for you too

Why wait until your kids are 40 and miserable? Is it not better to give them a head start in life?

Why let them develop ineffective habits? Is it not better to help them develop powerful ones instead?

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Published: February 7, 2008 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: March 18, 2021In: Parenting, Education / Learning, Emotional Intelligence, Kids / Children, Life Coaching Tags: emotional intelligence, kids coaching, happiness, motivation, kids / children, education / learning, practical parenting / parents

I Hate Homework! How to Convince “The 6 Officers”

Woman writing on a notepad

Sometimes when I give my clients things to do at home, I find myself having this old feeling towards homework. Most of my clients are grown ups and I give them homework. It does not matter how hard I try to call it “assignments”, “thinking exercises” or “activities”, I still think of it as “homework”.

If you recall, school and I were not the best match. I was not a good student (good choice of words, Ronit!) and I never, never did my homework. I hated homework!

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Published: January 10, 2008 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 23, 2019In: Education / Learning, Did You Know? Tags: school, communication styles, learning styles, k-12 education, education / learning

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