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Social Media Reality: Look Up! What Are You Missing?

Technology and social media have become a significant part of our life. Recently, I learned some valuable lessons about just how they affect us and the opportunities they make us miss.

My 13-year-old daughter, Noff, is the youngest in our family. Lately, she has been struggling with not having a mobile phone to take to school. To her, mobile phones are very cool. Some kids need them to coordinate pick-up times or for safety on the bus.

Unfortunately for her, she does not need it for any of those things. She so much wants to be part of the mobile phone in-crowd that she uses our old phones to play games. She struggles with not being like everyone else and I struggle with my parenting.

I have some beliefs and rules about social media and I know I need to adjust them to suit the times. I have three kids and I cannot apply the same parenting rules regarding media with Noff that I did with my first two.

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Published: July 24, 2014 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: November 9, 2021In: Parenting, Kids / Children Tags: social, suicide, video, internet, positive attitude tips, safety, kids / children, computer, movies, beliefs, feeling, rules, mobile phone, relationships / marriage, media, school, tv, practical parenting / parents, art, bullying, social media, music, technology, home / house

Video Games Violence (3): Parenting

While Tsoof was doing his assignment on video game violence, I was shocked with the level of violence the kids were exposed to and it really got me scared. By the end of it, he also showed me some statistics about parents and that got me even more scared.

Parents and video games

Here is a list of figures from a US research into parents’ involvement and attitude towards playing video games:

– 50% of parents play computer and video games with their children

– 93% of computer and video games are purchased or rented while the parents are present

– 88% of games are purchased by adults

– 72% of parents believe video games are “fun for the entire family”

– 71% of parents are asked to play by their kids

– 66% of parents believe computer and video games provide good opportunities for them to socialize with their kids

– 63% of parents believe computer games are a positive part of their kids’ life

– 50% of parents claim that playing computer and video games with their children provides good opportunities to monitor the game content
10% of parents never check the official rating of the computer and video games their kids use
Now, I ask you, would you not feel like there must be someone to blame? Do not feel devastated after reading these figures?

Did you know when reading such things, people use a defense mechanism that says “It won’t happen to me”. I did the same. I said to myself, “I’m OK. My kids are not exposed to video games. We have never purchased any computer game in our life. We don’t have a game console at home”. But this mechanism only gives us a false illusion that we are safe, because we are not.

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Published: September 5, 2011 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 25, 2019In: Parenting Tags: fear, kids / children, choice, teens / teenagers, trust, stress / pressure, internet, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, safety, behavior / discipline, violence, practical parenting / parents, social skills, society, anger, responsibility, lifestyle, suicide, bullying

Video Games Violence (2): Video-game-inspired real violence

In the first chapter of the series, I wrote some facts about the gaming industry and some research regarding video games and violence. Here is a list of real life killings and acts of violence inspired by video games. You may even recognize some of them.

April 20, 1999: 18-year-old Eric Harris and 17-year-old Dylan Klebold killed 12 students and a teacher in the Columbine High School massacre. The two were allegedly obsessed with the video game Doom.

1 April 2000: 16-year-old Spanish teenager José Rabadán Pardo murdered his father, his mother and his sister as an “avenging mission” given to him by the main character of the video game Final Fantasy.

20 November 2001: 21-year-old American Shawn Woolley committed suicide after what his mother claimed was an addiction to EverQuest.

February 2003: 16-year-old American Dustin Lynch was charged with aggravated murder and used an insanity defense that he was “obsessed” with Grand Theft Auto III.

7 June, 2003: 18-year-old American Devin Moore shot and killed two policemen, inspired by the video game Grand Theft Auto: Vice City.

This post is part 2 of 2 in the series Video Game Violence

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Published: August 29, 2011 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 25, 2019In: Parenting Tags: fear, kids / children, choice, teens / teenagers, trust, stress / pressure, internet, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, safety, behavior / discipline, violence, social skills, practical parenting / parents, society, anger, responsibility, lifestyle, suicide, bullying

Video Games Violence (1): Shock and Awe

This year, my 15-year-old son Tsoof had to do a school assignments in drama class. If you think Drama studies are all about playing, make belief or acting, they are not. He had to research a topic and present it in a special style and he worked really hard on this project. Gal and I felt happy and privileged to watch the whole process of this assignment and the way he grew from doing it.

Our kids do not play computer or video games that often (they are too busy ice skating, singing, playing music, dancing, playing sport and reading to have much time left for video games), so we did not expect this to make any difference to Tsoof, but it did big time.

We were shocked by how easy it was to find information on video games and violence. It is all there – all the proof for the negative and devastating effects of violent video games on our society. Yet, the spread of violent video games is increasing and things are getting worse.

I was not sure how to present Tsoof’s findings to you. I was debating whether to tell you my opinion or maybe there was no need. I think maybe just giving you some of the facts about it will be enough for you to understand the severity of the problem. As I believe that as parents, we have lots of power to change this horrible phenomenon. So sit back and be horrified!

This post is part 1 of 2 in the series Video Game Violence

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Published: August 22, 2011 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 25, 2019In: Parenting Tags: bullying, suicide, kids / children, fear, teens / teenagers, choice, stress / pressure, trust, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, safety, behavior / discipline, violence, social skills, practical parenting / parents, society, anger, lifestyle, responsibility

Who You Are Makes a Difference

A teacher in New York decided to honor each of her seniors in High School by telling them the difference each of them had made. She called each student to the front of the class, one at a time. First, she told each of them how they had made a difference to her, and the class. Then she presented each of them with a blue ribbon, imprinted with gold letters, which read, “Who I Am Makes a Difference.”

Afterwards, the teacher decided to do a class project, to see what kind of impact recognition would have on a Community. She gave each student three more blue ribbons, and instructed them to go out and spread this acknowledgment ceremony. Then they were to follow up on the results, see who honored whom, and report to the class in about a week.

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Published: December 23, 2009 by Gal Baras
Last modified: November 9, 2021In: Parenting, Relationships / Marriage Tags: beliefs, change, happiness, motivation, relationships / marriage, communication, lifestyle, focus, family matters, projection, story, inspiration, practical parenting / parents, emotional intelligence, suicide

Eulogy by a Coach

It was Friday and many people gathered at the funeral home. I knew 3 people in the crowd – Nicole and her two kids, Jane and Russell. The hundreds of people in the crowd were all like me, pieces of the puzzle of the life of the person they were saying goodbye to.

I looked at Nicole and the kids. It is just an irony that when you feel you need lots of strength to survive the heartache in your life, worse things happen and change the whole picture. They stood there carrying a burden that I sometimes wonder if time can heal.

The dead are always at peace. It is the other people who remain to suffer their absence. The members of the Lance Family were left to suffer the shame, the guilt and the secret.

A week before, 45-year-old Bryan hung himself in his garage.

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Published: September 17, 2009 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: August 27, 2021In: Emotional Intelligence, Family Matters Tags: family matters, communication, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, emotional intelligence, self confidence / self esteem / self worth, depression, suicide, choice, trust, beliefs, change

Teen Suicide

Someone very close to us lost her son to teen suicide. Her son was 18 years old, a great kid who took his dad’s gun one day, sat in his parents’ car in a park and shot himself to death.

He is gone and is probably not suffering anymore, but a whole family he left behind is still picking up the pieces of their shattered life and cannot find comfort.

I am writing to you because I pray you never have to be in the same position.

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Published: August 20, 2009 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 24, 2019In: Parenting, Relationships / Marriage Tags: how to, choice, trust, beliefs, motivation, relationships / marriage, communication, teen books, projection, optimism, emotional intelligence, teens / teenagers, depression, behavior / discipline, suicide, practical parenting / parents

Matters of Life and Death

Throughout my childhood, I often heard my parents talking about “making the right decisions”. I remember wondering many times, “What are the right decisions?” I remember the strongest feeling I had from what my parents thought about the right decisions was that decisions were always a matter of life and death.

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Published: September 22, 2008 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 24, 2019In: Personal Development, Parenting Tags: decision making, teens / teenagers, personal development / personal growth / personality development / self improvement, practical parenting / parents, success, suicide, fear, choice, failure, bullying

Hugging Season

Man and woman doing Christmas free hugs

As we prepared to hug the homeless, I happened to read about hugging and found a post where Carl Munson expressed his uncomfortable feelings about hugging. Here is my response.

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Published: December 18, 2007 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: November 9, 2021In: Personal Development, Opinion Tags: suicide, video, hugs, depression

Suicide Rate Is Rising. Time To Wake Up!

Teen girl's hand limp with pills spread around it

Although suicide is not a topic many people talk about, I believe it is important to discuss it BEFORE it is too late. Whereas in the past suicide was an adult concern, the trends in the last 50 years have changed and more and more teens (aged 15 and above) are at risk.

There are many reasons for suicide, some of which are related to crisis and mental breakdowns due to the loss of loved ones and others events that cannot be prevented. However, the major reason for suicide is depression. Yet unlike losing someone you love, depression can be prevented!

Suicide is one of those things that when it happens, it is already too late. Therefore, we, as parents and educators (and government), must take responsibility and dedicate ourselves to preventing suicide.

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Published: November 20, 2007 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: October 18, 2021In: Parenting, Education / Learning, Teens / Teenagers, Opinion, Emotional Intelligence, Did You Know? Tags: teens / teenagers, health / wellbeing, depression, suicide, teen books

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