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Baby’s Sex – To know or not to know (poll)

For my mom, the sex of the first baby was very important. Where she grew up (in Iran, ages ago), first born sons brought a lot of pride to the family and even in those old days, there were many ways to discover the sex of the baby.

Only when I got pregnant for the first time, I learned about all those beliefs and traditions. If you are pretty during your pregnancy, it means you will have a boy (because girls take away your beauty). If you hold your necklace with your wedding ring hanging from it and the ring moves in circles, you will have a girl. If you touch your nose after someone sprinkles salt on your head (without your knowledge), you will have a boy (because he will grow a mustache under his nose), but if you touch your eyebrows, you will have a girl.

It was so funny, I thought back then I could do a PhD thesis on the beliefs surrounding the sex of babies.

Somehow, my story was a bit more complicated.

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Published: June 21, 2010 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 25, 2019In: Babies / Maternity Tags: choice, beliefs, family planning, poll, family matters, pregnancy, baby / babies, practical parenting / parents

Kids, Santa Claus and Tooth Fairies (poll)

The Tooth Fairy

This week, my 9-year-old daughter Noff went to a play day with 4 of her friends. The parents who came to pick them up also had a bit of “play” time socializing and having a nice pizza and some watermelon.

The discussion was about kids, Santa Clause and fairies. We talked about the right time to tell kids who really puts the money under their pillow and who really buys their gifts for Christmas. I had taken part in similar debates and they always become passionate, as did this one.

Is it honest to tell kids about Santa and the Tooth Fairy?
What should we say when they ask? (Liar, liar pants of fire!)
When is the right time to tell them about the role their parents play in this?
What will they think when they find out we are the real fairies?

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Published: May 24, 2010 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: November 29, 2022In: Parenting Tags: emotional intelligence, practical parenting / parents, how to, choice, truth, trust, beliefs, motivation, poll, communication, self-fulfilling prophecy, projection, imagination, early childhood, kids / children

Who’s Your Favorite Grandparent? (Poll)

For the 21 years of our oldest daughters’ life, we have been contemplating the issue of our kids’ relationship with their grandparents. You see, our kids have grown up far away from their grandparents most of their life, but their relationships with one side of the family is stronger that with the other side.

To my surprise, the relationship to grandparents has nothing to do with how nice the grandparents are or what culture they are from, how nice you are, how nice your kids are or where you choose to live around the world. It is linked more closely to evolution – that survival mechanism of humanity to keep the dynasty and strengthen it. Grandparents invest in the grandchildren they are convinced are theirs.

In 1998, a researcher named DeKay came up with a theory to explain findings from researches conducted two years previously (Euler & Weitzel, 1996 and Boon & Brassoni, 1996) who claimed that grandmothers on the mother’s side invested in their grandkids the most. DeKay came up with a theory linking the relationship between grandparents and their grandchildren to certainty. His theory was that grandparents invest in the grandchildren they are certain are their offspring. In other words, the grandparent who has less doubt of being genetically related to the child and therefore to the grandchild, is more likely to invest in this relationship to support his or her “breed”.

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Published: May 3, 2010 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 25, 2019In: Parenting Tags: poll, family matters, grandparents, grandchildren, love, kids / children, research, practical parenting / parents, mother, father, mom, dad, relationships / marriage

What is the Right Age for Kids to Watch Avatar? (poll)

Avatar movie poster

Recently, Gal and I saw the movie Avatar. It was a very good movie and ticked most of the boxes for me – it was visually stunning and for a visual person like me, watching it in 3D was an amazing experience and the messages were very clear and very much in line with my philosophy about nature and spirituality.

I could not stop thinking of another amazing animated film I had watched with my kids and loved very much called FernGully: The Last Rainforest. Avatar was a magnificent replication of the messages in FernGully using technology that had not yet been invented in 1992 and a futuristic spin.

When I went to the cinema with Gal, it was packed. To my surprise, there were many young kids there, as young as 3 years old. It immediately made me wonder about the right age to watch that movie (or any movie, for that matter).

Although I had no problem watching FernGully with my kids at the age of 5, I was not sure about letting my 8-year-old daughter watch Avatar. The level of violence in the movie was above and beyond what I thought an 8-year-old kid should be exposed to.

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Published: January 8, 2010 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: February 4, 2023In: Parenting Tags: poll, kids / children, practical parenting / parents, early childhood, emotional intelligence, choice, beliefs, violence

What do You Want for Your Kids?

I have written about what is important to parents many times and I know that for some readers, it is not enough to read me saying that for hundreds of parents going through the parenting workshops, happiness and all forms of happiness are more important than what they spend most of their energy on (academic success).

Do not get me wrong. I do not know any parents who care about their kids that would say, “I want my kids to be failures at school”. We all want our kids to be academically successful. After all, whether we like it or not, we think their level of success says something about us…

Unfortunately, many parents think academic success is the entry ticket to “real life”, but although I believe it is very important, I think it cannot stand by itself and we need a balance between academic success and happiness.

What do you think?

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Published: November 10, 2009 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: March 18, 2021In: Parenting Tags: kids / children, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, focus, health / wellbeing, gratitude, friends / friendship, love, practical parenting / parents, money, emotional intelligence, choice, happiness, poll, academic performance

How to Discipline Your Kids

I get asked many times about disciplining kids. I hate the word “discipline”, because I believe kids do not need to be disciplined, they need to be loved and cared for, supported and encouraged. Discipline has nothing to do with being happy – not with being a happy kid and definitely not with being a happy parent. In fact, parents with discipline questions are unhappy and know their kids are unhappy too.

I guess most of the parents who ask me about discipline really mean they want to know how to help their kids behave in a way that will make life easier for them. After all, kids learn their behavior from the people around them. The challenge that people have with discipline is that instead of it being a method of guiding kids towards the desired behavior, it is used as a way to control them. But kids are very smart and when you use controlling methods to manipulate them, they quickly start using the same techniques to manipulate you, which is very annoying.

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Published: October 22, 2009 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: April 18, 2022In: Parenting Tags: emotional intelligence, how to, choice, control, happiness, motivation, relationships / marriage, poll, family matters, behavior / discipline, communication, practical parenting / parents

TV Diet (8): How Much TV is Too Much?

As the name of this series of posts suggests, your family may need to go on a TV diet to minimize the damage done by excessive watching while still getting the benefits TV has to offer.

The best way to start any diet is to find out how much and what kinds of food you consume, so to start your TV diet, first you need to know how much TV you and your kids are watching.

Most parents think their kids watch too much TV and fight a lot with their kids over it. Finding out about your kids’ viewing habits can help you greatly in your parenting by having your facts straight.

This post is part 8 of 18 in the series TV Diet

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Published: August 24, 2009 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 24, 2019In: Parenting Tags: tv, family matters, sleep, time management, communication, kids / children, how to, teens / teenagers, choice, change, behavior / discipline, lifestyle, practical parenting / parents, poll, television

Happy Birthday to Family Matters (poll)

Two years ago, we launched the “Family Matters” website. Wow, when I look back, I realize so many things have happened since. Now, we have 438 posts (all original material from our own experience with our own kids), and lots and lots of comments. We are very proud and happy to be making a difference in so many families’ lives.

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Published: June 22, 2009 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 24, 2019In: Parenting, General Tags: kids / children, practical parenting / parents, community, poll, family matters

What Parents and Kids Fight about

Having conflicts between parents and kids is one of the main issues that parents raise in our parenting workshops. No parent in the world dreams of arguing or fighting as parts of parenting. When kids are born and their parents watch them for hours sleeping in their crib or rattling toys with their tiny hands, none of them imagines ever fighting with this little creature that they loved so much.

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Published: May 26, 2009 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 24, 2019In: Parenting Tags: sleep, attitude, kids / children, stress / pressure, communication, behavior / discipline, school, practical parenting / parents, computer, relationships / marriage, conflict, poll, tv

Homework Routine

Mother and daughter reading

Last week, I talked about the importance of parents’ involvement in their kids’ homework. Today, let’s discuss the homework day. Should kids get homework at all? Should they have homework every day? Whenever homework is needed? On Mondays? On Fridays? What do you think?

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Published: March 24, 2009 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 2, 2022In: Education / Learning, Parenting Tags: kids / children, education / learning, school, practical parenting / parents, responsibility, success, choice, lifestyle, poll, k-12 education, time management, academic performance

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