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How to Save Yourself from Divorce

Gal and Ronit Baras

Soon, Gal and I are going to celebrate our 28 years of our life together. Every year that passes, we get more and more requests for our relationship program from people who are considering divorce.

The good news is that they look for solutions before they “turn off the light and send the actors home”. The bad news is they are in an emotional turmoil and are very very unhappy.

If you have seen the movie Mrs Doubtfire or Kramer vs. Kramer, you have probably had a glimpse of what it means to divorce, although a movie cannot describe even a small portion of the emotional stress people go through when they think about separating.

This post is part 2 of 34 in the series Save Your Marriage

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Published: April 24, 2008 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: March 18, 2021In: Family Matters, Relationships / Marriage Tags: emotional intelligence, divorce, happiness, relationships / marriage, romance, family matters, positive attitude tips, focus, love

Sleep Over All Year Round

Girls in pyjamas

I remember the days before we bought our second home. Our family told us to buy a place that would fit all our kids into it. Our daughter Eden was just 1 year old and we fell into that trap of thinking 15 years ahead. We never thought about sleep over mania.

The place we bought was a huge apartment with a special room for a teenager. We lived there for about a year and a half and the spare rooms stood empty all this time.

Gal and I, not really having our own rooms most of our childhoods, really wanted our kids to have their own separate rooms. So whenever we moved (by the time Eden was 19, she had lived in 17 different homes), we looked for a house that had space for each of the kids, but things did not work out as we expected.

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Published: April 23, 2008 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: February 17, 2020In: Kids / Children, Relationships / Marriage Tags: love, emotional intelligence, happiness, relationships / marriage, family matters, kids / children, practical parenting / parents

34 Life Lessons I Have Learned

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I have learned that life is short. You never know when will be the last day of your life. If there is anything you know you will regret not doing or saying, do it or say it now!

I have learned that children are the most precious thing for every mother and father. Dedicate time to your kids. Raising kids does not mean feeding them, sending them to school and doing their laundry. Raising kids is more about loving them and being with them. Spend time with your kids even if they already have kids of their own.

I have learned that writing a journal is a way to keep the memory of who we are. When I keep a journal, I can read it and get to know myself years after I am not that person anymore.

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Published: April 22, 2008 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: February 17, 2020In: Personal Development Tags: love, values, emotional intelligence, happiness, relationships / marriage, family matters, positive attitude tips, kids / children, practical parenting / parents, focus, gratitude

Hugging Babies is Not Enough

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Last week, after posting Self Esteem Mini-Course (part 6), I got this comment from Chuck Bluestein referring to his post called What Causes a Lack of Self-Esteem in Americans. According to Chuck, the lack of physical touch in infants is the source of the problem. In short, we are not hugging babies enough.

Well, Chuck, I agree with you that physical touch is essential for kids’ physical and emotional growth. I even think that parents who think they are “spoiling” their babies by holding them in their hands are being unreasonable.

Yes, babies need hugging and touching. But the real problem in our society starts when they grow a bit and Mom and Dad think it is inappropriate to touch them anymore. It reached a stage where grown-ups who lived together in the same house for years shake hands when they see each other.

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Published: April 21, 2008 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: March 18, 2021In: Kids / Children, Parenting, Teens / Teenagers, Emotional Intelligence Tags: communication styles, learning styles, relationships / marriage, early childhood, kids / children, touch, teens / teenagers, love, self confidence / self esteem / self worth, emotional intelligence, practical parenting / parents, hugs, depression

Let’s Divorce After I Get My Period

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My client Meg came today very emotional and sad. She had been successfully working on her relationship with her husband for over 3 months but doubts had crept in after a serious argument.

Meg has been with her husband for over 10 years. When he started talking about having kids, she started talking about divorcing.

“I do not know if we love each other anymore. We don’t have fun together, the sex is not what it used to be”, she thought and came to me for coaching to make the decision about staying or leaving.

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Published: April 16, 2008 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: March 18, 2021In: Relationships / Marriage, Family Matters, Health / Wellbeing, Beautiful people Tags: relationships / marriage, stress / pressure, women, communication, love, emotional intelligence, divorce, happiness, Life Coaching

Weddings, Love and Marriage

Young couple in love

This week, I went to my young daughter’s school with a group of other mothers to celebrate the teacher’s wedding. On the card from all the families in the class, I wrote “Happy wedding day”, but I did not think it was the right blessing.

You see, my wedding day was not a happy day at all (too much family politics), but it did not change the fact that Gal and I have been together for over 27 years and are still very much in love. In my head, a happy wedding day is no guarantee for a happy marriage and I am sad for it. I would certainly like it to be a sign for the years to come, but it is not.

Relationships require work. Having a loving relationship requires the couple to fall in love with each other again every day! Anniversaries are celebrations of this love, only without the big crowd. It is amazing that the world marriage statistics show that only rare couples reach their 30th wedding anniversary. I think it is about time we changed this (and I suggest we start right away).

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Published: April 15, 2008 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: May 6, 2020In: Family Matters, Life Coaching, Relationships / Marriage Tags: success, emotional intelligence, beliefs, divorce, wedding, separation, happiness, relationships / marriage, focus, positive attitude tips, love

Angels of Love and Demons of Fear

Dark angel looking over box with golden figure inside it

Once upon a time, in a small village, lived a family. They had a small guest house at the back of their property, where people passing by stayed for the night.

All four of their kids helped in the guest house and when they finished their chores, went to play with the other kids – all but the second son, Tom.

Tom was a very quiet and a sad boy. He never smiled, never laughed and the other kids did not want to play with him.

One day, an old man came to the guest house and Tom, who loved listening to the guests’ stories, showed the old man his room.

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Published: February 14, 2008 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: November 9, 2021In: Spirituality, Personal Development, Relationships / Marriage Tags: inspiration, depression, fear, valentine's day, happiness, video, gratitude, love

Check Your Temperature on Valentine’s Day

Box of chocolates and flowers for Valentine's Day

If you are single not by choice or you do have a partner but struggle in your relationship, Valentine’s Day can be a sad day.

I guess after the hype of the cards and the gifts, the chocolate and the romantic dinners, each and one of us considers it a reflection day, a day to check how much we love each other and how much love there is around us.

For many people, the chocolates are there to ease the sadness.

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Published: February 13, 2008 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 24, 2019In: Relationships / Marriage Tags: love, valentine's day, relationships / marriage

When Will You Get Married?

Young bride on a beach

I am 36, my younger brother is getting married and the whole family nags me about getting married.

I’m so stressed about that wedding. I hate weddings. Everyone has something to say about me not being married.

Any tips?

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Published: February 1, 2008 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 24, 2019In: Relationships / Marriage, Ask Ronit, Emotional Intelligence Tags: stress / pressure, behavior / discipline, love, wedding, relationships / marriage, family matters

7 Easy Secrets of Behaviour Management

Spoiled girl

Behaviour management seems to be a big part of parenting. Parents struggle with their kids’ behaviour over their entire parenting “career”.

Many times, I have been asked if I had a “magic formula” to solve behavioural problems and I always say that behaviour management is not fixing behavioural problems but preventing them from happening.

The difference between fixing a problem and preventing it is the difference between a proactive mindset and a reactive one. When I need to fix a problem, I become “The Fire Brigade” and start putting out fires and that is no fun, because I am then controlled by the circumstances or the people around me (the kids).

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Published: January 16, 2008 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: March 17, 2021In: Education / Learning, Emotional Intelligence, Kids / Children, Parenting Tags: relationships / marriage, love, positive attitude tips, emotional intelligence, behavior / discipline, hugs, personal development / personal growth / personality development / self improvement, trust, negative, language, control, violence

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