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Alcohol for Teens

This week, I was at a conference and I had a talk about my book for teenagers with a woman named Jill. As often happens, our conversation turned into a “bitching session” about teenagers.

“Last night, I picked up my 15-year-old daughter from a party. I’m one of the rare parents who still come to pick their kids up. The rest takes a taxi”, she complained, “When I arrived, there were lots of police cars around”.

“Did anything bad happen?” I asked, worried.

“Oh, no, that’s usual. Every time she goes to a party, someone does silly things and the police arrive”.

My 20-year-old daughter and my 14-year-old son had never participated in a party where the police arrived, so I asked her, “What do you mean by ‘silly things’?”

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Published: December 22, 2009 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 24, 2019In: Parenting, Health / Wellbeing Tags: teens / teenagers, health / wellbeing, friends / friendship, responsibility, practical parenting / parents, choice, safety, rules, alcohol, lifestyle, social

Baby Hope

The 2009 Weblog Awards
This entry is part 2 of 7 in the series 35-hour Baby

… I spent hours closing my eyes and trying to wake up in a different life, where the scar is not so painful. I knew what it meant to have a broken heart. I was broken, damaged, feeling like my body had failed me. I had been through a caesarian section and I was in such emotional pain I felt nothing at all.

“I have Eden”, I told myself, trying to find some comfort. Our house was in a total silence. We had to take the new crib back to the store and pack all the little things we had already put in the baby’s room. I was grateful I didn’t have to take care of the funeral arrangements – Gal did that with Eden. The thought of him choosing a tiny coffin was too hard for me and I tried closing my eyes, but that did not help.

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Published: November 20, 2009 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: August 21, 2023In: Babies / Maternity, Parenting Tags: friends / friendship, family matters, practical parenting / parents, pregnancy, loss, grief, death, vision, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, emotional intelligence, baby / babies, relationships / marriage, health / wellbeing, family planning

What do You Want for Your Kids?

I have written about what is important to parents many times and I know that for some readers, it is not enough to read me saying that for hundreds of parents going through the parenting workshops, happiness and all forms of happiness are more important than what they spend most of their energy on (academic success).

Do not get me wrong. I do not know any parents who care about their kids that would say, “I want my kids to be failures at school”. We all want our kids to be academically successful. After all, whether we like it or not, we think their level of success says something about us…

Unfortunately, many parents think academic success is the entry ticket to “real life”, but although I believe it is very important, I think it cannot stand by itself and we need a balance between academic success and happiness.

What do you think?

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Published: November 10, 2009 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: March 18, 2021In: Parenting Tags: academic performance, kids / children, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, focus, health / wellbeing, gratitude, friends / friendship, love, practical parenting / parents, money, emotional intelligence, choice, happiness, poll

Kids’ Survival Skills

In the Stone Age, survival involved hunting, gathering, finding shelter, keeping a file going and making simple stone tools. Men were men, women were women and kids had to observe and learn from their respective role models how to survive, but it was fairly simple – get food, make sure nothing eats you, that sort of thing.

From a social point of view, kids did as they were told and stayed out of the way of people who were physically stronger. When they did not, they were beaten, denied food or faced danger on their own.

Over time, life changed quite a bit. Farming, wars, new religions, the industrial revolution, colonization all required the development of new survival skills, but generally speaking, one’s position in life was mainly determined by one’s position at birth – place of birth, social status, financial position and so on. Although stories are told of those who have made great changes, most people lived life pretty much the same as their parents had.

From a social point of view, kids did as they were told and were bound by strict societal rules of politeness, respect and service towards adults and people who were socially stronger.

Nowadays, things are very different. Getting from one place to another, far away, is relatively easy and inexpensive, so even young people can afford to travel and relocate and even kids experience the change created by international or long distance moves.

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Published: November 4, 2009 by Gal Baras
Last modified: December 24, 2019In: Parenting, Relationships / Marriage Tags: friends / friendship, communication, practical parenting / parents, focus, emotional intelligence, change, relationships / marriage, social skills, society, lifestyle, kids / children, behavior / discipline

TV Diet (17): More Healthy Alternatives

This entry is part 17 of 18 in the series TV Diet

Last week, I described some healthy alternatives to watching too much TV. You may have already found some ideas you can work with. Today, I will describe even more alternatives, which should give you and your kids more options.

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Published: October 26, 2009 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: March 18, 2021In: Parenting Tags: lifestyle, television, tv, family matters, activity, focus, kids / children, responsibility, how to, friends / friendship, choice, practical parenting / parents, change, social skills

Racist Kids

As you probably know by now, I love stories and after you read this, you will know why I wanted to pass this story on to you.

“I am married to a Scottish man. Recently, our 3-years-old daughter’s birthday was coming. She said she wanted to invite friends from her day care center home, “But I don’t want to invite boys or blacks”, she said. I was very shocked. I’m as black as can be and always thought that because my husband has fair skin and comes from a different culture to mine, we are the perfect example of living in cultural harmony. I never thought my own daughter would say something like that”

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Published: September 22, 2009 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: May 27, 2024In: Parenting Tags: story, cultural, communication, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, emotional intelligence, friends / friendship, how to, choice, beliefs, change, relationships / marriage, society, family matters

Make a list: Ways to be kind

This entry is part 18 of 49 in the series Make a List

In 1991, Allan Luks (former executive director of The Institute for the Advancement of Health and executive director of the Big Brothers and Big Sisters program in New York City) documented a study about kindness in a book called “The healing power of doing good: The health and spiritual benefits of helping others”.

In a survey he conducted among 3,000 people of all ages from 20 organizations around the USA, he found clearly that “Helping contributes to the maintenance of good health and it can diminish the effect of diseases and disorders both serious and minor, psychological and physical”. So there you have it – if you want to be happy and healthy, help others!

In his research, Luks found that helping others and being kind resulted in a sharp reduction of stress and increased the release of endorphins (the body’s natural feel-good drugs). Over 90% of participants in his research reported that regular volunteering lowered their stress level and contributed to their health and wellbeing.

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Published: September 11, 2009 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 24, 2019In: Personal Development Tags: happiness, relationships / marriage, social skills, community, lifestyle, focus, free hugs, projection, positive, emotional intelligence, how to, health / wellbeing, choice, friends / friendship, change, personal development / personal growth / personality development / self improvement

TV Diet (10): Parents’ Influence

This entry is part 10 of 18 in the series TV Diet

Parents do not like to admit, but their attitude and personality contributes a lot to their kids’ desire to watch TV. In this chapter of TV Diet, I will cover some of parents’ behaviors and personalities that drive kids to watch more and more TV.

As you read, I hope you do not find yourself there, but if you do, do not despair. You can turn things around. Of course, as is the “Family Matters” tradition, change will start with you and I will give you the solution (later in the series, so subscribe or come back to read).

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Published: September 7, 2009 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: March 18, 2021In: Parenting Tags: behavior / discipline, divorce, friends / friendship, social skills, education / learning, lifestyle, practical parenting / parents, relaxation, television, tv, academic performance, focus, kids / children, role model, choice, stress / pressure, beliefs

How to Have More Intimacy in Your Relationship

Intimacy: couple lying face-to-face on the floor

Let’s start with some big words. According to Wikipedia, “Intimacy generally refers to the feeling of being in a close personal association and belonging together. Genuine intimacy in human relationships requires dialogue, transparency, vulnerability and reciprocity”.

When I mention intimacy to people, many of them immediately think of romance and physical closeness, particularly in the context of fear of intimacy. But this is only a borrowed meaning.

In fact, many sexual relationships have little or no intimacy in them, while other relationships are based on deep spiritual bonding without any physical contact whatsoever.

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Published: August 19, 2009 by Gal Baras
Last modified: March 18, 2021In: Parenting, Relationships / Marriage Tags: communication, social, love, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, emotional intelligence, behavior / discipline, how to, self confidence / self esteem / self worth, fear, friends / friendship, choice, practical parenting / parents, trust, identity, relationships / marriage, romance, family matters

A Lesson in Proportion

Sometimes, the things we expect the least – both good and bad – can teach us the best lessons in life. Last month, I said to a group of 26 child leaders that in many things of our life, the important thing is not what others give us, but what we choose to take. When I said that, I did not consider the possibility of taking a lesson from others without any intention on their part.

Two weeks ago, we learned a very valuable lesson from a good friend of ours. Tom, our friend, had never planned on giving us this lesson. In fact, if it was up to him, I think he would gladly not teach us this lesson at all because of the heavy price he had to pay for it.

I hope that when you read this story, you will choose to take as much as possible from it. Remember, it is not about what I write, but what you choose to receive.

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Published: August 13, 2009 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 24, 2019In: Personal Development Tags: relationships / marriage, optimism, lifestyle, focus, self-fulfilling prophecy, projection, positive, emotional intelligence, health / wellbeing, negative, friends / friendship, safety, personal development / personal growth / personality development / self improvement, beliefs, change, happiness

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