At my current job, I work with a lovely group of ladies, each at a different stage in life. Two of the ladies in the office this week were discussing how their teens seem to question their actions constantly – why they had to buy new boots, where they were going so late at night, etc.
Monica said she came home from a meeting in time to organize dinner for the family and then rush out again to another meeting. She told her girls that all they needed was to wash up afterwards. While she was on her way out, her eldest teen said, “Why do we have to do it? What have you been doing all day? You’re just going out to be with your friends”.
Of course, I have no children of my own just yet, but I have heard this before. Back in the day, it even came out of my own mouth once or twice…
Janet said her eldest was constantly questioning her actions too and that her standard reply was that she did not need to justify herself or her actions.
I beg to differ.
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