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Do As I Do

Man holding his mobile phone

In one of the newsletters I get regularly, I received a link to the article titled “Social media…dirty word or essential skill?” I am sure most parents with Internet access and a teen or two would vote for “dirty word”, considering their kids’ obsessive texting, chatting and emailing.

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Published: October 29, 2008 by Gal Baras
Last modified: March 19, 2021In: Kids / Children, Personal Development, Parenting, Teens / Teenagers Tags: communication, teens / teenagers, focus, behavior / discipline, values, education / learning, practical parenting / parents, role model, choice, beliefs, lifestyle, k-12 education, positive attitude tips, kids / children

How to Cure a Forgetful Kid

Mr. Forgetfuls and author Tim Regan

This is a question I got from a mother:

“I have a 13-year-old son who is a forgetful kid. I ask him to bring notes from school and he forgets them. He forgets his homework, he forgets to bring messages from school, he forgets he has a test, he forgets we have plans in the family. I talked to his teachers and we agreed to communicate between us but he keeps forgetting his communication book. I feel lost and I do not understand why he is so forgetful in things that are important and remembers his computer stuff well.

What can I do?”

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Published: October 10, 2008 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: March 18, 2021In: Parenting, Ask Ronit, Kids / Children Tags: memory, self-fulfilling prophecy, positive attitude tips, kids / children, teens / teenagers, focus, behavior / discipline, education / learning, success, practical parenting / parents, emotional intelligence, motivation

Be Your Partner’s Best Friend

True friends are forever. It is amazing how long we keep true friendships. From primary school age and across oceans, we take a feeling of belonging and connectedness with us and maintain friendships.

Divorcing is actually the end of a very special friendship. It is a friendship between partners and lovers. If we remember to treat our partners like we treat those special friends, it would probably make life much easier.

Friends are God’s way of taking care of us

We may have misunderstandings, disagreements and conflicts with friends, but we never forget the bond we have between us and we are always willing to work out our problems. Just like any friendship, marriage is a way for two people to complete each other.

In order for marriage to work, the couple needs to master the three functions of marriage: partnership, love and friendship. These three functions are fundamental to the success of every marriage. We talk a lot about sharing responsibilities, we talk about increasing the love, but it seems that often, the friendship is a little neglected. In fact, surveys reveal that if there is one thing that will enable a couple to weather even the toughest of times, it is friendship.

If you want to stay married for a long time, find a way to be your partner’s best friend.

The first step to success of the friendship in any marriage is to make sure you align your definitions with your partner’s. Here are some questions couples should ask themselves and then discuss with each other if they want to grow their relationship.

This post is part 14 of 34 in the series Save Your Marriage

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Published: October 7, 2008 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 24, 2019In: Relationships / Marriage, Family Matters Tags: behavior / discipline, friends / friendship, focus, love, emotional intelligence, beliefs, divorce, relationships / marriage, positive attitude tips

The Seatbelt is Your Friend

View from the back seat of a car

When my daughter started driving, I was scared to death. Talking to her and many of her friends, I heard some awful reasons why they did not want to wear seatbelts. I was also shocked that those who wore seatbelts were doing it just to avoid a fine!

Highway signs where I live warn, “Wear a seatbelt of wear a fine”. This makes young people think that the police are out to get people who are not wearing seatbelts so that is the best reason to wear one. In a way, I believe the authorities are promoting negative thinking about seatbelts with their choice of advertisements.

Instead of teaching people it is important to take care of themselves and wearing a seatbelt can preserve their lives, they scare them into doing it to avoid punishment. But I think that’s the wrong motivation.

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Published: October 2, 2008 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: November 9, 2021In: Parenting, Teens / Teenagers, Health / Wellbeing Tags: health / wellbeing, practical parenting / parents, choice, safety, beliefs, video, teens / teenagers, behavior / discipline

Lean on Me

Once upon a time, there was a princess in a far away kingdom. When the princess was born, she cried a lot. Her parents, the king and queen, called all their advisors for help. Some said she was cold, others said she was tired, some said she was hungry and others said she was wet, but one old advisor said, “The princess is in the middle of a fight”.

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Published: September 30, 2008 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: November 9, 2021In: Relationships / Marriage, Kids / Children Tags: personal development / personal growth / personality development / self improvement, practical parenting / parents, love, emotional intelligence, wisdom, relationships / marriage, compassion, video, kids / children, behavior / discipline

All Men Are… All Women Are…

In previous parts of the “Save Your Marriage” series, I discussed some of the problems that arise in relationships. This week, I will cover another one of the disturbing conflicts in any relationship – being trapped by stereotypes about gender.

In married life, there will always be obstacles threatening the stability of the marriage. Working through personal perceptions and interpretations is the key to overcoming such challenges.

Shortcut to divorce

Men and women perceive emotions, communication, sex, fidelity, work and money differently. They think the way they do because of the way they have been socialized and because of the way they have been shaped by their parents’ perceptions. From a very early age, we are “programmed” to believe that there are such things as “typical male” and “typical female” behavior. If you want a demonstration of how early this starts, look at your kids playing “shop” and consider how you choose baby clothes. Is it true that all baby girls love pink and baby boys love blue? No. Yet, most parents, when buying clothes, do not want to risk going against the grain by swapping colors.

Endless messages such as these are received during childhood and turn into beliefs and values that couples take into their marriage later on in life. Each party to a couple has his or her own “programmed” definition of what is typical, what is acceptable, what is tolerable and what is intolerable in a marriage relationship. Each of them may think that there is a particular way to show love to men that is different from the way you show love to women or that all men love sports and all women love jewelry and, without knowing, such gender beliefs can become a shortcut to divorce.

This post is part 11 of 34 in the series Save Your Marriage

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Published: September 16, 2008 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: March 18, 2021In: Parenting, Relationships / Marriage Tags: gender, values, beliefs, divorce, relationships / marriage, lifestyle, family matters, positive attitude tips, communication, focus, behavior / discipline, projection, practical parenting / parents

Two’s Company, Three’s a Crowd: See What Happens

3 young women giggling

There’s a famous saying “Two’s company, but three’s a crowd”. When you’re a parent, and you want to help your kids with their social life, it’s a good one to remember. Other odd numbers of kids are tougher than even, but three can get downright nasty.

Ronit and I grew up in small places, where life was fairly simply and people were very friendly. So whatever we did, we did with our friends. We rode our bikes with them, played sports with them, and splashed with them at the pool or in the puddles. We swung with them at the playground and very often invented new and exciting games and adventures with them.

So it’s only natural for us to want our kids to have friends too and enjoy similar warmth to what we felt as kids. We want them to develop their social skills and imagination (come on, say it with me “instead of spending all their spare time in front of the computer or the TV”).

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Published: September 10, 2008 by Gal Baras
Last modified: September 9, 2020In: Parenting, Relationships / Marriage, Kids / Children Tags: relationships / marriage, social skills, kids / children, behavior / discipline, friends / friendship, practical parenting / parents, happiness

Recipe for Teen Disaster

Children’s behavior is the concern of many parents. Kids can be diagnosed with ADD, ADHD or ODD, when in fact, it is the various choices their parents have made throughout the course of their kids’ lives that make kids act the way they do. Yes, I know this is hard to accept, but I believe that if you were to give me a normal child – boy or girl – I could, by making a simple choice to act in a particular way, single-handedly turn this child into a problematic beast with social problems, difficulties with authority, declining academic achievement, lack of motivation, depression, anger and anxiety, just to name a few.

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Published: September 8, 2008 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: March 18, 2021In: Parenting, Education / Learning, Teens / Teenagers Tags: kids / children, teens / teenagers, attention deficit / add / adhd, behavior / discipline, focus, education / learning, school, practical parenting / parents, beliefs, identity, k-12 education, odd, positive attitude tips

More About Self Talk

Two weeks ago, in part 6 of “Save Your Marriage”, I explained the influence of negative self-talk on relationships. Last week, in part 7, I gave an example of Sally talking to herself about her frustrations regarding her weight. In every relationship, when people talk to themselves about their problem with others in a negative way, things can easily be blown out of proportion.

Self-talk is a natural way of dealing with what happens to us in life and it is typical for men and women alike. It is when the self-talk turns all dark that things start going wrong.

This week, I want to let you in on Allan’s self-talk when planning to hang out with the guys.

Hanging out with the guys

Sally packed her bag and rushed to pick up the kids from music school. The phone rang and Dave was on the other end of the line.

“Hi Sally, I can’t get hold of Allan. Is he home already?”

“No”, said Sally, “He has a meeting till 6”.

“Can you please let him know we are planning to hang out with the guys on Friday?”

“Sure”, said Sally and hurried to her car. The thought of not having to cook on Friday was pleasing. She could take the kids out for a pizza, she thought happily.

This post is part 9 of 34 in the series Save Your Marriage

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Published: September 2, 2008 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: March 18, 2021In: Relationships / Marriage Tags: behavior / discipline, communication, projection, emotional intelligence, fear, divorce, relationships / marriage, anger, family matters, self-talk

Opposition Defiance Disorder – What an ODD Name

Opposition Defiance Disorder (ODD) is another name people who like labels use when they need a budget for helping children. Someone has worked very hard and probably spent many dollars to research kids and teens (they say ODD can start as early as 1-3 years of age) and come up with a nice label. Since ADHD worked so well, ODD should work quite well too. Labels are a good way to attract funds, but I am not sure they are good to make things better.

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Published: August 29, 2008 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: March 18, 2021In: Emotional Intelligence, Kids / Children, Parenting Tags: emotional intelligence, beliefs, identity, odd, positive attitude tips, attention deficit / add / adhd, behavior / discipline, communication, education / learning, focus

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