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Facebook: The Parenting Enemy

This week, in my art class, we talked about Facebook. I have to say I am a bit nervous when we talk about Facebook. Some clients of mine experienced a big trauma when a member of their family posted something on Facebook. The post was the sort of thing that was so terrible, each and every one of them wanted the earth to open up and swallow them. They are still sorting out the issues and nothing they do will be able to remove the post.

Another couple I coached separated because of Facebook. There was nothing they could do to forgive each other for writing those things. You see, when someone says something nasty, it is painful, for sure. But when it is written online and the whole world can see it, the pain aches for a long time afterwards. In both of these cases, we are talking about grownups.

Can you imagine what happens if kids do it?

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Published: February 14, 2013 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 25, 2019In: Parenting Tags: academic performance, choice, kids / children, computer, teens / teenagers, research, parenting teens, control, health / wellbeing, kids coaching, creative / creativity, family matters, practical parenting / parents, activity, home / house, technology, time management, sympathy, music

Compassionate Relationship: Failed Sympathy

In the last chapter on tests in relationships, we talked about the risks of hidden apathy. Today, I will cover the risks of sympathy.

If you remember my example story, I was very, very sad when a contract I had been working on for about 3 years was suddenly stopped 2 month after it started. I was so excited and happy when it started that I was extremely sad when I was told the organization will not continue the project. To manage my feelings, I shared the story with people I have a relationship with. Lucky for me, most of my relationships were very supportive and I made sure not to share with those who were not.

Here are more examples of getting things wrong and failing the relationship test.

This post is part 4 of 4 in the series Compassionate Relationship

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Published: February 5, 2013 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 25, 2019In: Relationships / Marriage Tags: relationships / marriage, compassion, social, communication, sympathy, focus, positive attitude tips, love, attitude, success, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, emotional intelligence, friends / friendship, language, empowerment, happiness

Compassionate Relationship: Empathy, Sympathy and Compassion

Most people have conflicts in their relationships and fail to resolve them because they confuse between empathy, sympathy and compassion. This confusion can be caused by either person in the relationship. It can be a result of ineffective expectations or insufficient support. Regardless the reason, life, the ultimate examiner, would give a “Fail! Big time!” on this test.

Understanding the difference between the three is essential to passing the relationship test. Here is my version of the difference.

Empathy is when you notice and understand the other persons’ situation, experience, perspective or feelings. It does not mean you share their feelings, agree with them or have been asked to share your judgment, thoughts or ideas. It definitely does not mean you need to solve their problem.

The best way to proceed is to say, “I can see that you are very disappointed and upset”, or just be a sounding board and repeat back to them what they said, “So you are sad because he was rude to you. I can understand why”. Often times, people only want empathy. Someone to talk to that will understand their perspective and feelings. Empathy is a way to give support with your presence.

This post is part 2 of 4 in the series Compassionate Relationship

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Published: January 22, 2013 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: December 25, 2019In: Relationships / Marriage Tags: empowerment, empathy, happiness, relationships / marriage, compassion, communication, social, focus, sympathy, love, positive attitude tips, success, attitude, emotional intelligence, acceptance / judgment / tolerance, failure, friends / friendship, language

Irrational Rules of Living – Sympathy

Caring about others is a great quality and requires a high emotional intelligence. Being able to get out of ourselves and see things from a different point of view is a useful ability and can probably help us communicate and relate better to others. However…

This post is part 11 of 12 in the series Irrational Rules of Living

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Published: November 13, 2008 by Ronit Baras
Last modified: November 9, 2021In: Personal Development, Parenting Tags: personal development / personal growth / personality development / self improvement, practical parenting / parents, focus, emotional intelligence, beliefs, identity, relationships / marriage, video, sympathy, positive attitude tips

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