Comments on: 60 Tips for a Happy Marriage

By: Seunadekola

Seunadekola — Thu, 02 Feb 2012 12:23:00 +0000

my husband complains a lot that i am not romantic i mean too dull in bed despite of all his effort to get me arroused
also he complains about my inability to participate which i dont actually know the method

By: ronitbaras

ronitbaras — Wed, 01 Feb 2012 07:06:00 +0000

Talking too much can be a communication style problem.
Where do you live?
please visit:
http://www.behappyinlife.com

By: ronitbaras

ronitbaras — Wed, 01 Feb 2012 07:05:00 +0000

kids never fix a broken marriage.
All you can do now is move on!!!!!!!!!!!!!

By: ronitbaras

ronitbaras — Wed, 01 Feb 2012 06:33:00 +0000

Jennifer,
Read the comments and other people's suggestions.

By: ronitbaras

ronitbaras — Wed, 01 Feb 2012 06:31:00 +0000

Thank you Gail!
Never too late.

By: peter

peter — Fri, 27 Jan 2012 00:46:00 +0000

pls l need help my wife talk too much and this is problem and cant forget somethings at all what you did in 5years ago it will get it out someday and everytime you have problem she will say l 'am ture with the marriage

By: Kristinesaavedra

Kristinesaavedra — Fri, 23 Dec 2011 12:43:00 +0000

weve been together for almost 7 years ,2years in married life but it was not a good and happy marrage ive expected,he cheated on me on our first baby i never tot he will have a 3rd party i tot having our first baby will help are relationship strong but i am very much upset and frustrated that i already know that he marry other woman without knowing anything about them even my brother in law didnt even say anything i was so blind and down,now i really dont know what to do but instead to cry and to feel hopeless

By: Gail

Gail — Fri, 18 Nov 2011 20:39:00 +0000

This might be a bit late to reply to you ( a year after all) but since you sound so much like me I thought maybe it's not too late after all...:) My husband was married before as well and also had gifts, little hearts and all those "romantic things" that he did/carried for his ex. He also planned lots of huge surprises for her while they were together and was very jealous of her with other guys. It used to really annoy me in the beginning because he never did those things for me. But here's where I was wrong - I was comparing. The relationship he had with her ended. It did not work. He learned a lot and matured a lot and instead of doing all those "romantic gestures" our society teaches us we need, he's actually way more mature and hones. He's also a very loving and caring husband and a great father to his kids. If you take the time to figure out why you married him in the first place and what is really important to you in your marriage (and not the things you think you need to prove to yourself you're better than her or he loves you more than he loved her - he is with you after all, not her) then maybe you'll see that you're happy with what he does already or there's something that he can do for you that he feels comfortable enough doing. And like Ronit said - you should be happy with yourself first before you expect someone else to make you happy. Best of luck to you both!

By: ronitbaras

ronitbaras — Sat, 15 Oct 2011 11:47:00 +0000

Hardy,

You are not wrong but very cruel to yourself.
I came up with a good activity that I ask all my clients to do in their relationship coaching program. They need to give each other a list of " what you can do to make me happy"
Try!
You will be surprised to read his list.
He will be surprised to read yours

We live in a society that is not very kind to boys and some of them grow to be men that do not express feelings and afraid to be perceived as weak. Forgive him. He did not choose in which era to be born.

Ronit

By: ronitbaras

ronitbaras — Sat, 15 Oct 2011 11:43:00 +0000

I can't tall you about all husbands, mine didn't.
Maybe you can both go and see the movie "Crazy, stupid, love"
It is a good reminder of why we need to invest in relationships and not take it for granted.

Ronit