So why not calculate how much money is dedicated to families who divorce – support for double accommodations, child benefits, single parent support, educational support for children in divorced families and (mental) health support for parents and children due to divorce. Then, give couples bonuses for their anniversary, taking into account the length of their marriage and the age and number of children they have (something like a “second honeymoon” bonus would be nice). These bonuses can be great motivators for people to work on their relationship and people can use them to address some of the reasons for divorce – learn stress management, communication skills, intimacy and conflict resolution, or just reduce financial difficulties and treat emotional problems.
