Comments on: Things I Want My Kids to Know: The Door is Always Open http://www.ronitbaras.com/focus-on-the-family/parenting-family/things-i-want-my-kids-to-know-the-door-is-always-open/ "Happy Parents Raise Happy Kids" Mon, 21 May 2012 19:50:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Ronit Barashttp://www.ronitbaras.com/focus-on-the-family/parenting-family/things-i-want-my-kids-to-know-the-door-is-always-open/#comment-3993 Ronit Baras Sat, 14 Mar 2009 09:36:21 +0000 http://www.ronitbaras.com/?p=575#comment-3993 HI E, Great to see you here again. I agree, if parents give their kids this understanding they will have less trouble. I was lucky to get that feeling from my parents. I go to schools and talk about it with my parents ( workshop parents) and explain to them that kids ( no matter how old they are) must know the door is always open. I do not think kids test their parents love. I think they do sometimes make mistakes and they need to be able to go to the people that loves them dearly and get energy to start again. we are just human, we make mistakes, we think it will be right and we do not have the ability to look forward. you are wise. Happy day <a href="http://www.ronitbaras.com/" rel="nofollow">RonitBaras.com</a> HI E,

Great to see you here again.
I agree, if parents give their kids this understanding they will have less trouble.

I was lucky to get that feeling from my parents. I go to schools and talk about it with my parents ( workshop parents) and explain to them that kids ( no matter how old they are) must know the door is always open.

I do not think kids test their parents love. I think they do sometimes make mistakes and they need to be able to go to the people that loves them dearly and get energy to start again. we are just human, we make mistakes, we think it will be right and we do not have the ability to look forward.

you are wise.

Happy day

RonitBaras.com

]]> By: Ehttp://www.ronitbaras.com/focus-on-the-family/parenting-family/things-i-want-my-kids-to-know-the-door-is-always-open/#comment-3987 E Thu, 12 Mar 2009 07:06:05 +0000 http://www.ronitbaras.com/?p=575#comment-3987 I think that if you parents give you the feeling that you are always welcome at home, you'll never put yourself in a situation where you will need to and your relationship with them will be better. As harsh as that sounds, if you have the feeling that you are safe and there is always a back-up, you have the confidence and self-esteem to choose the best thing for you. You won't need to test your parents and you'll never push too hard, just to see how far you can go and how long they will still love you. I think that if you parents give you the feeling that you are always welcome at home, you'll never put yourself in a situation where you will need to and your relationship with them will be better. As harsh as that sounds, if you have the feeling that you are safe and there is always a back-up, you have the confidence and self-esteem to choose the best thing for you. You won't need to test your parents and you'll never push too hard, just to see how far you can go and how long they will still love you.

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