Comments on: Rescuers http://www.ronitbaras.com/focus-on-the-family/parenting-family/rescuers/ "Happy Parents Raise Happy Kids" Mon, 21 May 2012 19:50:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Ronit Barashttp://www.ronitbaras.com/focus-on-the-family/parenting-family/rescuers/#comment-4461 Ronit Baras Thu, 03 Sep 2009 04:23:19 +0000 http://www.ronitbaras.com/?p=2073#comment-4461 Hi Furnace Installation, (I like your logo) I guess all parents know that, they never know when it is "Too Much". I do not think we know when is that point because it does not exist. too many parameters are involved that we are unable to tell when we help them becomes handicapping them. One critical parameter is parents knowing themselves and their feelings, desires, fears and motives. I believe that if we are aware of who we are as parents (without judging ourselves)we can find the balance between making life too easy for our kids or making it too hard for them in the long run. Thanks for your comment and happy day Ronit <a href="http://www.themotivationalspeaker.biz/" rel="nofollow">The Motivational Speaker </a> Hi Furnace Installation,

(I like your logo)

I guess all parents know that, they never know when it is "Too Much". I do not think we know when is that point because it does not exist. too many parameters are involved that we are unable to tell when we help them becomes handicapping them.

One critical parameter is parents knowing themselves and their feelings, desires, fears and motives. I believe that if we are aware of who we are as parents (without judging ourselves)we can find the balance between making life too easy for our kids or making it too hard for them in the long run.

Thanks for your comment and happy day
Ronit
The Motivational Speaker

]]> By: Furnace Installationhttp://www.ronitbaras.com/focus-on-the-family/parenting-family/rescuers/#comment-4459 Furnace Installation Wed, 02 Sep 2009 14:20:43 +0000 http://www.ronitbaras.com/?p=2073#comment-4459 great post, i think too many parents are handicapping kids by helping them out too much, its ok to teach but if they don't have the hardships it won't be good for them in the long run. great post, i think too many parents are handicapping kids by helping them out too much, its ok to teach but if they don't have the hardships it won't be good for them in the long run.

]]> By: Gal Barashttp://www.ronitbaras.com/focus-on-the-family/parenting-family/rescuers/#comment-4163 Gal Baras Tue, 12 May 2009 03:24:12 +0000 http://www.ronitbaras.com/?p=2073#comment-4163 Jo, it's great there are mothers like you around. Your kids actually LIVE. Cheers, Gal Jo, it's great there are mothers like you around. Your kids actually LIVE.
Cheers,
Gal

]]> By: Joannhttp://www.ronitbaras.com/focus-on-the-family/parenting-family/rescuers/#comment-4161 Joann Tue, 12 May 2009 01:18:18 +0000 http://www.ronitbaras.com/?p=2073#comment-4161 Hi Gal, I totally agree with you that parents need to allow children to trial and error life experiences. I have two boys ages 10 and 9. They ride motorbikes, horses and one has just started riding calves in the rodeos. Parents ask me with fear in their voices "How can you let them do that? Aren't you worried that they will get hurt?". My reply is "I don't watch!! (When it's usually video taped) and a doctor is always available". The look on the boys' faces when they have played tag on the horses galloping through the paddock or ridden the calf for 6 secs, is priceless. And just to let you know that my boys love school, have many friends and enjoy a wide variety of card and board games. In my family I have found that a balance of life is vital for ALL our sanity. And I NEVER have any trouble putting them to bed at night. Always Happy Parenting Jo Hi Gal,
I totally agree with you that parents need to allow children to trial and error life experiences. I have two boys ages 10 and 9. They ride motorbikes, horses and one has just started riding calves in the rodeos. Parents ask me with fear in their voices "How can you let them do that? Aren't you worried that they will get hurt?". My reply is "I don't watch!! (When it's usually video taped) and a doctor is always available". The look on the boys' faces when they have played tag on the horses galloping through the paddock or ridden the calf for 6 secs, is priceless. And just to let you know that my boys love school, have many friends and enjoy a wide variety of card and board games. In my family I have found that a balance of life is vital for ALL our sanity. And I NEVER have any trouble putting them to bed at night.
Always Happy Parenting
Jo

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