Personally, Ronit and I prefer to send our own kids to a school. We also prefer the largest possible school for the variety of activities and the wide choice of friends and social interactions.

We also know some people with lots of time and resources who have taught their kids at home and most their kids are awkward in social situations, although they crave being in other kids' company and are all bright and talented in several areas.

I would suggest that you exhaust the list of schools in your area, consider private schools if you have the means, and follow the list above to cater for your son best. If by "sensitive" you mean your son is easily hurt by others, you may want to choose a small, soft and supportive with a strong sense of community and offer his intelligence extra stimulation outside school hours.

Over time and with encouragement, your son may grow stronger emotionally and your/his choice of school may change to a more stimulating one.

Finally, many people find martial arts a good way to build boys' (and girls') confidence. Within a short time, this may allow your son to fit in anywhere.

I hope this helps.

Gal