Comments on: Aggressive Kids http://www.ronitbaras.com/focus-on-the-family/parenting-family/aggressive-kids/ "Happy Parents Raise Happy Kids" Mon, 21 May 2012 19:50:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: ronitbarashttp://www.ronitbaras.com/focus-on-the-family/parenting-family/aggressive-kids/#comment-8222 ronitbaras Wed, 01 Feb 2012 05:54:00 +0000 http://www.ronitbaras.com/?p=624#comment-8222 Suzette,  Well, blaming cannot heal anything. Your aunt did whatever she could, forgive her!  If he is 20, he should be able to be responsible.  We can't save those who do not want to be saved. If we try to save them anyway, it makes us judgemental.  Suzette, 
Well, blaming cannot heal anything. Your aunt did whatever she could, forgive her! 
If he is 20, he should be able to be responsible. 
We can't save those who do not want to be saved. If we try to save them anyway, it makes us judgemental. 

]]> By: Suzette Caniahttp://www.ronitbaras.com/focus-on-the-family/parenting-family/aggressive-kids/#comment-8164 Suzette Cania Sun, 30 Oct 2011 17:14:00 +0000 http://www.ronitbaras.com/?p=624#comment-8164 Hi I just read your response just now. My brother's like 20 years old already. Every time I talk to my aunt about this, (meaning the situation, why this has happened) she'd always make excuses so as not to put the blame on her. I've explained to her about how "reinforcement/punishment" works but she just said that I was just trying to OUTSMART her. Although I have to be honest that I have not been calm when speaking to her (especially when the blame's on me), I act and speak to her aggressively, that's why we end up fighting in the end. Thank you for responding though. Hi I just read your response just now. My brother's like 20 years old already. Every time I talk to my aunt about this, (meaning the situation, why this has happened) she'd always make excuses so as not to put the blame on her. I've explained to her about how "reinforcement/punishment" works but she just said that I was just trying to OUTSMART her. Although I have to be honest that I have not been calm when speaking to her (especially when the blame's on me), I act and speak to her aggressively, that's why we end up fighting in the end.
Thank you for responding though.

]]> By: ronitbarashttp://www.ronitbaras.com/focus-on-the-family/parenting-family/aggressive-kids/#comment-7988 ronitbaras Fri, 15 Jul 2011 07:26:00 +0000 http://www.ronitbaras.com/?p=624#comment-7988 What a shame!  when you give aggressive person, not just a child, what he wants, you encourage him/ her to use this behavior to achieve things and when you do that, it is hard to complain that they do it.  I hope your aunt read it.  How old is your brother?  What a shame! 
when you give aggressive person, not just a child, what he wants, you encourage him/ her to use this behavior to achieve things and when you do that, it is hard to complain that they do it. 
I hope your aunt read it. 
How old is your brother? 

]]> By: Suzette Caniahttp://www.ronitbaras.com/focus-on-the-family/parenting-family/aggressive-kids/#comment-7951 Suzette Cania Thu, 30 Jun 2011 16:21:00 +0000 http://www.ronitbaras.com/?p=624#comment-7951 great post. I e-mail this post to my aunt who has problems dealing with my brother. He tends to be super aggressive especially when he's not being given everything that he wants. At the end of the day, my aunt just gives him what he wants. Because of that, my brother would always act aggressively when he wants something. The sad part is, my aunt doesn't recognize her part in the story and how she has tolerated my brother's behavior and I always get the blame. ALWAYS. great post. I e-mail this post to my aunt who has problems dealing with my brother. He tends to be super aggressive especially when he's not being given everything that he wants. At the end of the day, my aunt just gives him what he wants. Because of that, my brother would always act aggressively when he wants something. The sad part is, my aunt doesn't recognize her part in the story and how she has tolerated my brother's behavior and I always get the blame. ALWAYS.

]]> By: Ronit Barashttp://www.ronitbaras.com/focus-on-the-family/parenting-family/aggressive-kids/#comment-4763 Ronit Baras Wed, 06 Jan 2010 11:26:39 +0000 http://www.ronitbaras.com/?p=624#comment-4763 Monday Program s for kids, Do you have kids? I hope you will never have to use those tips. Ronit Monday Program s for kids,

Do you have kids?
I hope you will never have to use those tips.

Ronit

]]> By: money programs for kidshttp://www.ronitbaras.com/focus-on-the-family/parenting-family/aggressive-kids/#comment-4741 money programs for kids Tue, 22 Dec 2009 09:36:13 +0000 http://www.ronitbaras.com/?p=624#comment-4741 Great post, thanks! Me and the wife are going to use these great ideas :) Great post, thanks! Me and the wife are going to use these great ideas :)

]]> By: Ronit Barashttp://www.ronitbaras.com/focus-on-the-family/parenting-family/aggressive-kids/#comment-4185 Ronit Baras Fri, 22 May 2009 04:44:13 +0000 http://www.ronitbaras.com/?p=624#comment-4185 Juice plus, you are welcome! I am glad you think they are good tips. let us know if you had a chance to examine them Happy week Ronit <a href="http://www.ronitbaras.com/" rel="nofollow">Family Matters </a> Juice plus,

you are welcome!
I am glad you think they are good tips.
let us know if you had a chance to examine them

Happy week
Ronit
Family Matters

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