Comments on: Save Your Marriage (3): The Marriage Institution http://www.ronitbaras.com/emotional-intelligence/relationships/save-your-marriage-part-3/ "Happy Parents Raise Happy Kids" Mon, 21 May 2012 19:50:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Family Matters » Blog Archive » Save Your Marriage (part 4)http://www.ronitbaras.com/emotional-intelligence/relationships/save-your-marriage-part-3/#comment-630 Family Matters » Blog Archive » Save Your Marriage (part 4) Wed, 14 May 2008 12:23:41 +0000 http://www.ronitbaras.com/index.php/2008/05/emotional-intelligence/relationships/save-your-marriage-part-3/#comment-630 [...] takes a sharp turn when couples spending time together and “negotiate” their silent contract suddenly need to enter children into the contract. At this point, they become a family and breaking [...] [...] takes a sharp turn when couples spending time together and “negotiate” their silent contract suddenly need to enter children into the contract. At this point, they become a family and breaking [...]

]]> By: Ronit Barashttp://www.ronitbaras.com/emotional-intelligence/relationships/save-your-marriage-part-3/#comment-618 Ronit Baras Sun, 11 May 2008 09:09:55 +0000 http://www.ronitbaras.com/index.php/2008/05/emotional-intelligence/relationships/save-your-marriage-part-3/#comment-618 Hi Tina, I know what you mean about understanding each other without words. Gal and I have been together for over 28 years now and we are soooooooo different. Complimenting each other is the best way to describe us. I guess this is the reason we have conflicts. We do not think the same but this is the reason we can give each other so much. I believe that 1+1 is not always two. Look at each family with more than one kid. In my family, it was 1+1 = 7. In Gal's family, it was 1+1 = 6 and in my own home 1+1= 5. I think the real formula is 1+1 is always > 2. Thank you again for coming here and contributing to the community of this site. I wish you 30th anniversary with your husband (I wish this to myself and when I get there, I think I'll make it the 50th anniversary) Wonderful day Ronit http://www.ronitbaras.com http://www.behappyinlife.com Hi Tina,

I know what you mean about understanding each other without words. Gal and I have been together for over 28 years now and we are soooooooo different. Complimenting each other is the best way to describe us. I guess this is the reason we have conflicts. We do not think the same but this is the reason we can give each other so much.

I believe that 1+1 is not always two. Look at each family with more than one kid. In my family, it was 1+1 = 7. In Gal's family, it was 1+1 = 6 and in my own home 1+1= 5. I think the real formula is 1+1 is always > 2.

Thank you again for coming here and contributing to the community of this site.
I wish you 30th anniversary with your husband
(I wish this to myself and when I get there, I think I'll make it the 50th anniversary)

Wonderful day
Ronit
http://www.ronitbaras.com
http://www.behappyinlife.com

]]> By: tinahttp://www.ronitbaras.com/emotional-intelligence/relationships/save-your-marriage-part-3/#comment-609 tina Thu, 08 May 2008 22:32:26 +0000 http://www.ronitbaras.com/index.php/2008/05/emotional-intelligence/relationships/save-your-marriage-part-3/#comment-609 I love the way you have described how marriage works.We have been together for 10 years, and whilst it hasn't all been fun and games, we really do compliment each other - each one of us feels we can achieve more together as opposed to individually. I love that my husband knows the real me: exposed and raw: flaws and all - and still loves me - and even loves them. Another thing I really love is that, because we know how each other thinks and feels, all it takes is a look and we know what the other is thinking. It always makes me smile when I realise we have had a secret communication of an idea - and no words have been spoken! I love the way you have described how marriage works.We have been together for 10 years, and whilst it hasn't all been fun and games, we really do compliment each other - each one of us feels we can achieve more together as opposed to individually. I love that my husband knows the real me: exposed and raw: flaws and all - and still loves me - and even loves them. Another thing I really love is that, because we know how each other thinks and feels, all it takes is a look and we know what the other is thinking. It always makes me smile when I realise we have had a secret communication of an idea - and no words have been spoken!

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