Comments on: Beware of Pink Elephants http://www.ronitbaras.com/emotional-intelligence/personal-development-c/beware-of-pink-elephants/ "Happy Parents Raise Happy Kids" Mon, 14 May 2012 01:40:47 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Make a list: Improve My Lifehttp://www.ronitbaras.com/emotional-intelligence/personal-development-c/beware-of-pink-elephants/#comment-8080 Make a list: Improve My Life Mon, 12 Sep 2011 03:45:53 +0000 http://www.ronitbaras.com/index.php/personal-growth/beware-of-pink-elephants/#comment-8080 [...] is based on the fear (or pain) of fighting with your kids, so you must turn it around first (see Beware of Pink Elephants for more on creating a positive focus).Take responsibility! When looking for an improvement, focus [...] [...] is based on the fear (or pain) of fighting with your kids, so you must turn it around first (see Beware of Pink Elephants for more on creating a positive focus).Take responsibility! When looking for an improvement, focus [...]

]]> By: Ronit’s Parenting Bible: Manners | Family Mattershttp://www.ronitbaras.com/emotional-intelligence/personal-development-c/beware-of-pink-elephants/#comment-7964 Ronit’s Parenting Bible: Manners | Family Matters Fri, 08 Jul 2011 03:40:12 +0000 http://www.ronitbaras.com/index.php/personal-growth/beware-of-pink-elephants/#comment-7964 [...] children), so teach your kids that manners are a ticket to success.Never say anything negative (pink elephant) with "please", as in "David, please don't play with your food". Because the child's mind converts [...] [...] children), so teach your kids that manners are a ticket to success.Never say anything negative (pink elephant) with "please", as in "David, please don't play with your food". Because the child's mind converts [...]

]]> By: Wonderful Things to Say to My Daughters -- Family Mattershttp://www.ronitbaras.com/emotional-intelligence/personal-development-c/beware-of-pink-elephants/#comment-1499 Wonderful Things to Say to My Daughters -- Family Matters Thu, 21 Aug 2008 07:15:03 +0000 http://www.ronitbaras.com/index.php/personal-growth/beware-of-pink-elephants/#comment-1499 [...] a visit to Amanda’s house, I noticed that her communication with the girls was full of pink elephants. For a whole hour, she kept telling the girls what not to do - “Don’t leave the door [...] [...] a visit to Amanda’s house, I noticed that her communication with the girls was full of pink elephants. For a whole hour, she kept telling the girls what not to do - “Don’t leave the door [...]

]]> By: Family Matters » Blog Archive » Let’s Divorce After I Get My Periodhttp://www.ronitbaras.com/emotional-intelligence/personal-development-c/beware-of-pink-elephants/#comment-453 Family Matters » Blog Archive » Let’s Divorce After I Get My Period Wed, 16 Apr 2008 04:57:36 +0000 http://www.ronitbaras.com/index.php/personal-growth/beware-of-pink-elephants/#comment-453 [...] confused. She did not know what she wanted (although she knew exactly what she did not want - see pink elephants). All her options seemed bad: staying together was very unhappy, leaving seemed miserable, going to [...] [...] confused. She did not know what she wanted (although she knew exactly what she did not want - see pink elephants). All her options seemed bad: staying together was very unhappy, leaving seemed miserable, going to [...]

]]> By: Family Matters » Blog Archive » 14 Ways to Teach Your Kids Resiliencehttp://www.ronitbaras.com/emotional-intelligence/personal-development-c/beware-of-pink-elephants/#comment-407 Family Matters » Blog Archive » 14 Ways to Teach Your Kids Resilience Tue, 08 Apr 2008 13:23:10 +0000 http://www.ronitbaras.com/index.php/personal-growth/beware-of-pink-elephants/#comment-407 [...] at people, actions and behaviours and attracts the wrong experiences. Negative people use many pink elephants in their language. Watch how you talk to your [...] [...] at people, actions and behaviours and attracts the wrong experiences. Negative people use many pink elephants in their language. Watch how you talk to your [...]

]]> By: Family Matters » Blog Archive » Would You Say "No" to Violence Against Children?http://www.ronitbaras.com/emotional-intelligence/personal-development-c/beware-of-pink-elephants/#comment-371 Family Matters » Blog Archive » Would You Say "No" to Violence Against Children? Mon, 31 Mar 2008 08:20:43 +0000 http://www.ronitbaras.com/index.php/personal-growth/beware-of-pink-elephants/#comment-371 [...] my post on Pink Elephants, I explained the way our brain processes negative expressions like “no”, [...] [...] my post on Pink Elephants, I explained the way our brain processes negative expressions like “no”, [...]

]]> By: Family Matters » Blog Archive » What Are You Saying to Your Teens?http://www.ronitbaras.com/emotional-intelligence/personal-development-c/beware-of-pink-elephants/#comment-342 Family Matters » Blog Archive » What Are You Saying to Your Teens? Wed, 26 Mar 2008 07:18:56 +0000 http://www.ronitbaras.com/index.php/personal-growth/beware-of-pink-elephants/#comment-342 [...] I have written in the post Beware of Pink Elephants, when we use negative phrases, we focus on the things we do not want to. If you have not had a [...] [...] I have written in the post Beware of Pink Elephants, when we use negative phrases, we focus on the things we do not want to. If you have not had a [...]

]]> By: Be Special, Be Yourself » Blog Archive » 7 Easy Secrets of Behaviour Managementhttp://www.ronitbaras.com/emotional-intelligence/personal-development-c/beware-of-pink-elephants/#comment-121 Be Special, Be Yourself » Blog Archive » 7 Easy Secrets of Behaviour Management Wed, 16 Jan 2008 11:22:10 +0000 http://www.ronitbaras.com/index.php/personal-growth/beware-of-pink-elephants/#comment-121 [...] our brain cannot "not think" of things (see Pink Elephants), so it ignores the "don’t", "no" and even "stop" and focuses [...] [...] our brain cannot "not think" of things (see Pink Elephants), so it ignores the "don’t", "no" and even "stop" and focuses [...]

]]> By: ronithttp://www.ronitbaras.com/emotional-intelligence/personal-development-c/beware-of-pink-elephants/#comment-51 ronit Tue, 18 Dec 2007 00:14:27 +0000 http://www.ronitbaras.com/index.php/personal-growth/beware-of-pink-elephants/#comment-51 Hi Sharon, Thank you very much for visiting our site. it is great to hear the pink Elephants are spreading. Happy holidays Ronit Baras Hi Sharon,

Thank you very much for visiting our site.
it is great to hear the pink Elephants are spreading.

Happy holidays
Ronit Baras

]]> By: Sharonhttp://www.ronitbaras.com/emotional-intelligence/personal-development-c/beware-of-pink-elephants/#comment-50 Sharon Mon, 17 Dec 2007 16:59:33 +0000 http://www.ronitbaras.com/index.php/personal-growth/beware-of-pink-elephants/#comment-50 This is wonderful and inspirational. Thank you for sharing this. This is wonderful and inspirational. Thank you for sharing this.

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